have girlfriend who had many boyfriends.she had sex with them then got pregnant then had an abortion.me am a virgin...before as friends didnt bother me now we are together i feel it aint right ..now seems like she really pushing me to marry asap but am waiting upon the Lord.i believe in marrying a virgin.any human advise for now
2007-07-29 03:11:53 · 16 answers · asked by my heart cries 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
There is an old song that says--My heart cries still out that she is no good,but her softness and tenderness tells me I should.--Question WHY and she may be great for you But why do she want to get hitched asap.
2007-07-29 03:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by hunter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a question that you, not God or any of us, have to answer. If you can live with it than do. If you can't marry someone who is not a virgin (if it is indeed your belief and not your friends' or church's belief) than do the right thing and be fair to the girl and break it off. You should not get married to her if you are going to resent her the entire marriage. I myself married someone who had a lot more sexual experience (but no abortions) than I did but it does not bother me in the least.
2007-07-29 10:21:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe in marrying a virgin than you better not marry her. That will be hanging over your head and you will not be happy. But if you truly love her nothing will get in the way.
2007-07-29 10:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by George 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for God and He shall answer you
Pslam 145:18
"The Lord is near to all who call on Him ,to all who call on Him in truth"
2007-07-29 10:22:44 · answer #4 · answered by The born-again christian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she gave her heart to God and confessed to Him He is just to forgive her. If God lead you to marry her then that is the thing to do. The important thing is to be obedient to God. Follow what He tell you to do, it will not be easy but the Blessings for obedience is great. God Bless you and may God guide you in your decision.
2007-07-29 10:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by channiek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. Seriously, get over it. If you have no intention of marrying her, then break up with her, but quit stringing her along and learn to accept her for who she is, or leave her.
2007-07-29 10:19:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick a 6 foot metal pole up your @ss and run around the town with it. It'd look freakin' hilarious!
2007-07-29 10:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i wouldnt call persons who are pushing me to do something real friends especially not on such important areas as living / sharing your life with , most of the time they are egoists., both should be sure.
2007-07-29 10:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by gjmb1960 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your room where it is quiet and Say Jesus I praise You I worship You.Help me Jesus in what I should do.Then LISTEN inside your heart for 10 minutes.Then ask Jesus if you dont want me marrying this girl change it so I cant.And say if you do want me to marry her please show me a sign so You approve and I can assuredly say He will take care of it and I will tell you why.BECAUSE YOU ARE SHOWING HIM THAT HE IS GOD AND YOU ARE HIS CHILD YOU ARE HUMBLING YOURSELF>THAT GETS GODS ATTENTION QUICK
2007-07-29 10:23:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait for the voice of the Lord. God will order your steps. God bless.
2007-07-29 10:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by Joel 2 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋