muslims... why not self defence lessons instead of burkas?
And if other guys think you are hot and you are married... well let it go to your head that you are hot and hubby better appreciate it. Likewise Hubbie should be thinking...
I have the fit bird nananna na You can look but I can touch (and then some) na nanan na guys.
Plus in a proper realtionship you should be best mates who hurt to be apart and happy as anything to be together so who cares abot others.
but with a face you have a identity, you are a person with a name different to others.
in a burka/najab you are nothing. not human and not differente to all the others with no face.
Also why can guys have a face and western clothes and a name and an identity
2007-07-28
21:51:34
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whereas a woman in burka could be angelina jolie for all i or you know,but yet she seems fit to cover herself soo idiots on streets won't make leery comments and see her as sexual object,when she is just a normal human beign with feelings,etc..etc..
ACTUALLY YOUR ARE NOT SEEN AS A HUMAN BEING.
HUMAN BEINGS HAVE FACES.
THAT HOW YOU TELL ITS
ANGELEINA JOLIE
YOU MATE jANE, OR mONICA, aNNA KEROKA OR YOUR MUM.
If she wers a burka you have not idea who or what they are, male, felame, or even if human. as all looking the same no personality, no feelings, no expression, no nothing as everything is visual.
Im sorry BUT EVERY MAN AND WOMAN IS A SEXAUL BEING, AND A HUMAN, A POTENTIAL FRIEND AND ENEMY.
So they wont see you as a sex object well you are not a potentail friend, expert or anything
A burka wearer is nothing but a faceless thing.
Thats how its seen...
There is no kindness in the face, no persoanility
2007-07-28
23:55:20 ·
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Why is the gaze of men bad?
why not gaze back and check out the guys?
We wont complain . Its nice for people to check you out and think you are sexy and get nice comments like hya handsome or nice butt.
then I think hey Im cool all the girls think im hot stuff...
More confidence, feel cool, and appreciated.
Also most people are single...
2007-07-28
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How many times have you heard of women raping men?? And then the men's life is destroyed??
ACTUALLY MEN DO GET RAPED AS WELL. WHEN FEMLES GET RAPED ITS AS SOME JERK WAS AN ASSHOLE...
THEY SHOULD NOT COVER UP...
INFACT WEAR A BIKNI AND A BIG GUN SO SHOW i CAN WEAR WHAT i LIKE AND YOU HAVE TO BE NICE OR GET SHOT.
Have you heard of this saying:
"A man can spend 10 years without seducing a woman
A women can seduce 10 men in one minute"
tHATS TRUE... ITS HOW GIRLS HAVE THE POWER TO GET GUYS TO DO WHAT THEY WANT.... GIRLS WITH POWER OVER GUYS? ISLAM HATES THAT HENCE COVERING THEM UP SO HIDING THAT POWER.
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A man's main duty is to support his family, A woman's main duty is to take care of the family.
NO . NOT AT ALL.
MOST PEOPLE ARE SINGLE AND THEIR DUTY IS TO HANG OUT WITH THEI MATEA AND HAVE FUN AND WHATEVER THEIR JOB IS.
NO FAMILIES. TILL OLDER THEN BOTH HAVE SAME JOB. BE THEMSELVES AND LOOK AFTER KIDS PREPARING THEM FOR ADULT LIFE
2007-07-29
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For the above reasons, and many more but cannot mention them all here, a woman has to cover but not a man.
nO... JUST AS A GIRL IS NOT COVERED UP DOES NOT MEAN SHE WILL BE ATTACKED... MOST GUYS MAY BE ATTRACTED AND IF THEY ARE SINGLE AND LOOKING FOR A PARTNER MAY TRY AND IMPRESS THE GIRL TO TRY AND FORM A SEXAUL FREINDSHIP WHICH MAY DEVELOP INTO SOMETHING MORE.
MANY GUYS HAVE FRIEND THEY THINK ARE FIT BUT WHY WOULD THEY PUSH THEMSELVES ON PEOPLE WHO ARE THEIR FRIENDS IF SAID FEMALE MATE DOES NOT WANT THEM. THAT WOULD UPSET MATE.
aS SAID THE REAL REASON APPEARS TO BE TO CONSTAIN FEMLES... TO TAKE AWAY THEIR POWER ON MEN AND MAKE THEM DEPENDANT... AND POWERLESS.
2007-07-29
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listen.. u are stupid!!! get ur facts rite!!
Muslims in burkas have more protection than a girl walkin down da street half naked. When muslims wear burka they are not likely 2 receive lustful glances by men than a girl who is slutty.
Im sorry lustful glances from the opposite sex wheter you are male of female are a good thing... its good to be found attractive... in most cases hopefully that person if having lustful thoughts about you will want to come up to you and say high or some silly chat up line... it just means they think you are cute.
it does not mean they want to attack you...
those who would attack someone just as they were in a short skirt, bikini or even naked...
Are no different to those who mug people
Same thinking...
In a nudist colony you dont see the girls getting attacked
2007-07-29
08:00:22 ·
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The head scarf worn by Muslim women is to protect their modesty and avert the gazes of men. It's hard to block the gaze of men with self defense... and not get charged with assault, lol. Wearing the scarf is made obligatory in the Qur'an and Muslim women choose to wear it (they are not forced). Allah knows best!
2007-07-28 21:57:03
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answered by Red Dragon 2007 {Free Palestine} 4
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Finally a big question with an easy answer.
Anyhthing covering the whole face should be forbidden in public. It was already forbidden is some countries before it became an issue. The only exception was during carnaval days of course.
I have always wondered why suddenly the muslim dress changed so drastically in europe. Did they have a kind of concilium? Did the Koran change? Why we see less muslim dress code in Marocco suddenly?
If Islam women have to wear a headscarf to avoid the gaze of men, why don't we do like this: in the even years women wear their (admit, sometimes very sexy) head scarf. The next year all muslim men wear 100% dark glasses! Easy na?
This idea is offered for free by the kwistenbiebel denomation.
Have a nice day.
2007-08-05 19:29:40
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answered by kwistenbiebel 5
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The burka isn't used for self defense. I read an interesting article by a Muslim woman that stated the burka made her feel empowered. She said she was judged for her abilities rather than her looks. It is a cultural viewpoint.
Besides that, what makes you think that a lady wearing a burka can't kick your kiester from here to Istanbul?
2007-08-05 15:00:54
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answered by glaux_athena 3
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answered by ? 3
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You've got problem here, obviously!
I suggest that, you come out of your cocoon and explore the world! Only then you'll grow into a matured and civilized person, and not maliciously attack other people just because they are diffent from who you are!
Why dont you try comparing todays' women that are minimally dressed with women that lived thousands of years ago, any difference? No....they are the same, only fashion differs, but the concept is the same!!!
2007-08-05 21:51:25
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answered by ni2penang 3
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Excellent question, again. I gave you a star, Joey.
I'm a woman and I live in Canada. I go where I want, when I want, wearing whatever I want and I fear no one. Luckily I'm 5' 7", which is taller than some women and some men too! Also, I have taken self-defense classes. They give me confidence in my ability to take care of myself.
Canadian law does not prohibit men from looking at me, but I remember 15 years ago when men used to whistle and say rude things when I walked by. Today, however, that NEVER happens! Men are much more respectful to women now in Canada and they know, they may think a woman is beautiful, but there's nothing they can do about it and certainly, as far as sexual thoughts go .... they can think whatever they want but are bound by law to "keep IT in their trousers" so to speak. LOL
I have nice blonde hair that I would never think of covering and I wear form-fitting jeans and sleevless tank tops. I was told once that men from the middle east are told that women from the west are whores and will have sex with anyone, including THEM. Well, that's not quite true.
Our definition of modesty is different from a Muslim's definition. I consider myself modest by western standards. I don't smoke, I only drink moderately if I'm asked out to dinner or at a birthday party, I dress the way I want but I'm not dating right now therefore I don't get intimate with men. But I feel beautiful and there's nothing wrong with that.
I have had to use my martial arts skills only twice in my life but I was confident I could defend myself and I DID! Those two men, I'll bet, always think twice now before they give any other women a hard time.
I live in a beautiful, huge city, Toronto. I am one woman among tens of thousands of stunningly beautiful women who NEVER get bothered by men. That's just the way it is in the west. It's not against the law for men to look and wish .... but it is against western law for them to touch, and if they ever try anything with a western woman, they may end up with a broken arm. LOL
So, Muslim men who think we women in Canada and the US are whores just because we don't wear a najab or hijab .................. WE ARE NOT!
:)
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2007-07-28 22:33:19
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answered by Anonymous
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Why should you insist that every one live the way westerners do? If women are wearing bhurka or what ever in Muslim countries, thats their culture? There are some tribes in the world, i am told, even today, they don't wear anything at all. Now, dude, that's their culture. Now, because we wear dress should we insist that they wear dress too? [Women are sexulally harrassed equally every where...........http://www.hindu.com/2007/08/06/stories/2007080656061100.htm ]
2007-08-05 21:04:42
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answered by hamunaptra 2
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you are right,i wonder,if burka is a God's order,why God didnot ask muslim women to put it during hajj in Mecca???
it is the greatest islamic event performed by muslim men & women TOGTHER ,there is no gender segregation nor burka during it !!! a big question to muslims to answer
2007-08-05 16:45:01
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answered by jammal 6
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I recently bought this system http://www.downloadita.it/r/rd.asp?gid=423. It teaches how to protect yourself and your family in case of violent situations or unexpected attacks from thiefs. Sometimes having a gun is just not enough.
I hope it helps
2014-08-10 18:40:56
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answered by Anonymous
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Simple answer:
In a Western country like the UK (where we have thousands of Muslims), they should NOT be allowed to wear them, because if we were in their country we would have to abide by their rules.
2007-08-04 12:58:25
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answered by Anonymous
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