I wait around and bring my phone with me everwhere waiting on the call, but it never comes. He's always making up some stupid excuse as to why he couldn't call. I don't know why it drives me so crazy, but it does. All my friends and family keep telling me that it's just how guys are. Is that really how all guys are? Is there no hope?
2007-07-28 18:00:58 · 21 answers · asked by pretty little liar 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We've been going out for over 6 months and he says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him.
If he was cheating I'd know. We live in a small town and I have enough close friends that someone would tell me.
2007-07-28 18:11:46 · update #1
I do try and call him.
2007-07-28 18:12:35 · update #2
when he does that, does it make you want him more, are you more attracted to him...? If a guy was attentive, and could be relied on to call back when he says so, then, he'd be boring and you'd be less attractive to him. Why is this, i wonder, ...i've just been noticing how life works....
2007-07-28 18:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by Its not me Its u 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's not what guys do...not guys that are into you anyway.
Face it..he may just not be that into you.
And really, think about it..do you really want to be one of those girls who are so desperate that they are afraid to go outside or anything in case they miss a call from some guy?
You need to be more independent and realize you deserve better than that..think of all the time you waste waiting on a guy who probably isn't worthy of you!
2007-07-29 01:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by Peace Love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is true that most guys are that way. Is there no hope? NO. There is always hope. Not all guys are that way.
First, ask yourself why you hang on his phone call... why do you wait around for him? You need to live your life and not worry about him... obviously that is what he is doing. And if he promised to call and doesn't... talk to him about it. Explain that it is hurtful when he breaks promises... no matter what the reason is. And tell him that it does not build a good foundation for trust. If he won't call you when he promised to and he blows you off when you tell him it hurts you, then you need to dump him and move on because he is not taking care of your emotional needs.
2007-07-29 01:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop waiting for him!!! That's not how ALL guys are. There some that do that because men do not think about these things as women do. If you stopped waiting around for him and caring as much; the tables would turn. Unfortunately, that's just how these little games are played. PS I'm sure there are plenty of men out there that are willing to give you their time. Don't waste yours waiting!
2007-07-29 01:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know how you feel... im in the same situation... everytime i call my bf or he calls me well be on the phone for a while then hell tell me hes gonna go do something and that he will call me later... so ill just be waiting for his call sometimes he will call me back but other times he doesnt and it drives me crazy when he doesnt call me and then he makes up a stupid excuse. but its ok for him to do that and if i do that he gets really mad at me and starts calling me a liar... but you know what i think thats just how guys are.... so i try not to worry so much and if he call he calls if he doesnt oh well i can always call him
2007-07-29 01:10:45 · answer #5 · answered by Jenn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. You're stupid to accept this type of behaviour. If he says he'll do something then you should expect him to do it, unless he absolutely can't do it. No lame excuses. The same goes for you. People should never make promises they can't or don't intend to keep, and should be held accountable when they don't keep them.
Guys aren't like that. People are like that. If you let them display certain types of behaviour towards you, then you are basically giving them permission to continue to do those same things over and over again.
2007-07-29 01:05:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hes not a true boyfriend if he doesn't call u a true one will always call u and see how u r and see how ur day went that's a true boyfriend. no thats not how all guys r ur's is just an a** ( sorry my opinion) and there is all ways hope he will change
2007-07-29 01:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by ~ Jay ~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ah, welcome to my universe.
Women do this all the time.... but I have a simple solution. I just wad up the paper with the number on it.... shoot it towards the wastepaper basket, and BOOM. 2 points.
By the way, this doesn't make women (or men) call. However, it's one less idiot that I have to deal with, and once you eliminate the flakes, what does that leave you with? People who are actually worth dating.
2007-07-29 01:15:48 · answer #8 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think, if this is a common problem, you're not on his list of top priorities and he may very well be playing the field.
2007-07-29 01:04:57 · answer #9 · answered by SuperGurl78 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is just a *** like my boyfriend i do the same thing i think that he dose not know a good thing till it's gone.Leave him
2007-07-29 01:06:21 · answer #10 · answered by !*DamN Im SeXY!* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋