My brother is dating this girl that continues to play mind games with him. He got into a fight with his best friend and me because we have tried to tell him that she is no good for him. But he thinks that she is perfect. What can I do to make him realize that she is no good for him?
2007-07-28 17:56:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Nothing. He has to learn this for himself. And he will. Just give it time. The more you say the more he will protect her. So keep quiet and let him figure it out for himself. Its just a matter of time.
2007-07-28 17:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, there is nothing that you can do. I know this will be extremely frustrating, but trust me, I am right, after having gone through many similar experiences. When it comes to love, people do what they want to do, it doesn't matter what you tell them even if you're close. And telling them what they don't want to hear will only make them mad at you. You will have to let him find out on his own that she is not the right one for him - people will only learn from their own lessons. Hopefully he'll learn this sooner than later.
2007-07-29 01:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by orchid_blossom83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, this has happened with me and my older bro before.
He came home and introduced my family to some S**t of a girl and she had him whipped and treated him so badly! Once she left, I tried to tell him how horrible she was, but he owuldnt listen. My other two older bros tried talkign to him after he yelled at me but he hit my other bro. There was nothing we could do. We got in this huge argument and wouldnt talk for days.
Suddenly he came back home from school one day and locked himself in his room and wouldnt come out. My dad had to unscrew his door! He told us that his girlfriend dumped him in fromt of everyone to go out with the schools best basketball player bc she said she didnt want to be with my bro, a football player.
He will get over it, your bro. And if he doesnt, videotape or show him how bad she is for him. Videotape something bad she does to him and then show it to him.
Then he will realize.
Hopped I helped! Best of Luck!
2007-07-29 01:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he no longer needs to defend her from your attacks (even if deserved), then he is more likely to begin seeing her as she really is. Hang back, give them some room, and be there for your brother when it falls apart.
2007-07-29 01:16:36 · answer #4 · answered by Tom K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a thing. Sometimes lessons on life have to be learned the hard way.
2007-07-29 00:58:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant as you will just alienate him further. Just let him find out for himself and be around to pick up the pieces when she is done with him.
2007-07-29 00:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by auburn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but, why r u even trying? don't be control freak. let him live and learn. it takes few knocks b'fore some ppl learn. that is a very good way of learning, by the way!
2007-07-29 01:11:09 · answer #7 · answered by deepend 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now he is in deep in mind that girl his pefect match. when he is calm mood that time explain the girl what you dont like tha girl things make them sit and think. now you tried to tell him that is not possible. when he is in home and good mood then you told him.
2007-07-29 01:01:33 · answer #8 · answered by anju a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to learn for himself. You have planted the seed with him that this girl is not right for him. Be there for him when this gal throws him on his face.
Good luck!
2007-07-29 01:01:37 · answer #9 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well get a video camera and follow her around and then show him the tape. then he'll see if he doesnt give up and live your life.
2007-07-29 01:02:27 · answer #10 · answered by jazzylynne1991 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋