My bf is 15 and e is not a virgin. He wants me to..... u know but i'm 13 and i'm tempted. what should i do? Give it up or save it
2007-07-28 16:53:47 · 22 answers · asked by ☆ ♥ Lil Ms. Sunshine♥☆ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No sweetie I think you should wait until you are old enought to know when it is the right time , and you are to young sweetie . I am still a virgin and I will not give it up until I am ready . If he is a good guy then he would wait for it , until you are ready for something like that . Hope this help you sweetie . If you want to talk any time email me ok At Minakarin@aol .com ok Talk to you soon -Bubbles _
2007-07-28 20:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save it!!! 13 is way too young. I'm 13 too, and I know my boyfriend wants to cause he's a guy, and I know him, and sure, I'm kinda tempted too, but there is no way that I ever would. It should be given up to someone you love when you want to and are ready. At 13, you're definitely not ready and it's doubtful that you love him. There are just too many things that could happen. And if things get out, you'll get a really bad rep if nothing else.
2007-07-28 23:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!! You shouldn't do ANYTHING unless you want to, but you have forever to have sex. Don't let this boy be one of many to have sex with you and move onto someone else. If he loves you, he'll respect your age and and wishes. It's ILLEGAL TO HAVE SEX AT YOUR AGE. I know somone that has a CRIMINAL record for just having sex with his gf when he was 14. He was in prison for 3 years and is a registered sex offender FOR LIFE. Save yourself some heartache (not to mention not having to worry about STDs or pregnancy) and do something positive with your life instead of worrying about sex until you're MARRIED (sex will be the same then, and at least that guy [your husband] would have earned your virginity)!!
2007-07-28 23:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey to tell you the truth. Both of you are too young for going all the way. Wait till you are in love and married. Thats the best thing. trust me
2007-07-28 23:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by alhrdo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save it. Chances are once you give it up, he will be done with you. You have plenty of time for all that. Enjoy being young and don't get yourself caught up in something that you will regret.
2007-07-28 23:57:58 · answer #5 · answered by Splycgrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, you guys are young. believe me, my first time was when i was 15 and i regret it fully. i wish i had waited, even though i'm only 17, and with another guy. but i really wish i had waited. i'd advise you to say no and wait. if he pushes you, then he really isnt the one for you. save yourself for the one you know you truly love and be with for a long time.
2007-07-28 23:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way too young to be sexually active. Have respect for yourself & don't give in to temptation. Don't allow yourself to be put into a situation where you could end up giving in when you really don't want to.
2007-07-29 00:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're even the least bit unsure to do it, then don't.
you're only 13, i wouldn't recommend doing it.
wait to do it, because you want this to be a person who you really really love, and trust.
there's so many people out there and you are sooo young.
don't get into that just yet.
2007-07-28 23:57:45 · answer #8 · answered by perfectsonnet223 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG I am 13 and HECK NO! you would have to be a FCKN idiot to do IT, wait until you get married or wait until you're way older, look you can get PREGNANT IDK HOW TEMPTED YOU ARE but DONT DO IT, didn;'t you say he was like sorta of rapiing you in the other question. AGAIN I SAY DONT DO IT
2007-07-29 12:36:16 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥soccer♥♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would wait a few months more. i had sex when i was 15 and the first time is never what you imagine just one tip is when you do decide to have sex then don't go there with second thoughts
2007-07-29 00:00:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋