Why do guys find it appealing (or necessary) to go to strip clubs for a bachelor party? What is the point? And who started this tradition?
2007-07-28 16:47:36 · 11 answers · asked by Peanut 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
i do not know who started it, but it is a tradition that needs to die. i do not see why men need a last "night out", that should have been the night they had their first date with you. weirdos.
2007-07-28 17:55:21 · answer #1 · answered by Christina V 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A bachelor party is exactly that. It's a man celebrating his last day of being a bachelor. It's actually also for his friends as a last time bonding experience. Usually a stripper or strip club is involved because after a man is married he is expected to give up this bachelor lifestyle of hanging with the guys watching ladies they don't know dance. Some guys dig others don't, it's just a party so don't cry unless it's yours. It's just fun, not meant to spoil a relationship but I guess it has that stigma. It is said to have started in Sparta as a toast on the eve of a man's wedding. Don't hate ladies that's why there are bachlorette parties =)
2007-07-29 00:07:32 · answer #2 · answered by KushPush 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Many don't , but go along without thinking. It's a last hurrah type of thing, (as if any of them had these kind of girls when they were single!)
Most of the bachelor parties my friends had were daytime affairs, at a grove or park with lots of horseshoes, baseball, hot dogs & beer. Some were even co-ed and sponsored for the couple together. More like picinics than low brow boozing & brawling.
2007-07-28 23:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by electricpole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's the whole idea of being "tied down" after getting married. I think it's stupid, my fiance thinks it's stupid, too. He went for his bachelor party the first time he got married and said he was bored! Sometimes the rules "change" after you tie the knot, and your spouse no longer "allows" or tolerates something he/she did before you got married. The point is just one last hoorah before he's officially "taken" I guess. If more women would trust their men and let them go to the strip club AFTER marriage maybe it wouldn't be made such a big deal.
2007-07-28 23:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont get it either- usually theres more drama and stress caused by the strip club situation and if the groom wanted to see naked chicks, he should have done it before committing to his bride long ago- not the day before the wedding. The strip club was there before they started dating
2007-07-29 02:53:18 · answer #5 · answered by smileyface333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just something guys do. Kind of like a "last free night" to do things like that and not get any grief from the missus about it. Of course, not all women are against letting their husbands go, but there are a lot of them.
2007-07-28 23:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The traditional part of this ritual is that the man is "supposedly" not going to hook up with girls anymore because he got married so he hooks up with these strippers one last time before the wedding.
2007-07-28 23:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh i think it's stupid too.. i can see the traditions behind it but really don't you think it's wrong to do this with your girlfriend anyway? i know to me it'd feel like cheating!! i think it is wrong and i hope my boyfriend would have more taste when it comes to his bachelor party
2007-07-30 04:27:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether you can recognize this as a harmless activity...or whether you believe there is sex in the champagne room.
2007-07-28 23:55:38 · answer #9 · answered by Ray C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a last fling and it's fun for them. they like to look at huge boobs that we (well at least I) don't have. not all men go. my fiance isn't going to one, but if he was I wouldn't freak out.
2007-07-28 23:51:41 · answer #10 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋