I left my 8yr old son Tonio, & my 3yrold cousin Joe with my B.F. for bout 15 min tops upon my return, Tonio is trying to pull Joe back to the house. My son told me that Joe walked out the door and my B.F. sent him after the little one.Now I was mad cuzz he was in the house laid on the sofa on his cell and the door was shut they had no supervision. I dont think he should send 1 child after another child when there safety is involved he knew better he has 3 kids 9,11,2. If you want to be with me you treat mines just as you would your own you would not let just no anything happen . And i was really mad cuzz he thought he was right and would not see no other way. For christs sake they were outside he was in the house with the door shut on the phone. So i decided he had to go was that to drastic or right on time!!!
2007-07-28 16:46:24 · 10 answers · asked by latora_king 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
If you can't trust him with your most precious possessions, what can you trust him with? A moms gotta protect her kids, no matter what.
2007-07-28 16:54:50 · answer #1 · answered by K H 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You were right. If he's not going to treat your kids right, then that's it. It was right on time. This could happen again and this time something could happen to the kids. Don't feel bad, you did the right thing.
2007-07-29 02:53:25 · answer #2 · answered by qsb_1118 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off learn proper english. Secondly if an 8 yr old isnt smart enough to know "safety" measures then something is wrong. However I do believe if your involved with someone they should treat your children as their own within limitations. For instance I'll be damned any man ever lay a hand on my child even if they spank their own. I am a step parent and I treat my SD as my own and at time she resists but I dont give into her and we get along great now.
2007-07-29 00:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Obviously this person does not know what adult supervision is. You are right and his kids will probably be the one's that are completely out of control, because it seems your friend does not care.
2007-07-29 00:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by mama 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree that you made the right move. Sounds like he had no common sense!
2007-07-29 01:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by Reba 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
right on time girl...never let anyone treat them differently,i would have thrown him out then called and made a report to where it dose reflect his own parenting skills....then he can see how stupid he was
2007-07-29 03:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with you. you put them in his care, which made him responsible for them. he acted like he didn't even care. if you made him responsible for the children, then he should treat them responsibly. i mean, he should already know how to take care of kids if he has his own.
2007-07-29 00:51:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by getting rid of him......I would have done the same thing. Just don't let him come back, even if he begs....DON'T.
2007-07-29 06:46:45 · answer #8 · answered by sharon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go girl kicking him to the curb was right on time!
2007-07-28 23:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by wowwhosthatchick 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the right move to me!
2007-07-28 23:53:53 · answer #10 · answered by western b 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋