What is the most romantic way to ask a girl out?

Question

I've been rejected a lot and this girl that i love has a boyfriend and she went to Thailand and when she got back on Myspace there was a pic of him and his new girlfriend so they broke up yesterday and i wanted to ask her out but iam not that romantic and i need to know a good romantic way to ask a girl out

Answer 1

Now you don't want to move too fast, she just broke up with her bf and might not be ready for another relationship.. Try talking and flirting with her more.. getting her a little more interested in you.. because you want to be sure she feels the same. or at least likes you


I agree with it being in person.. I would start by saying how she didn't deserve what she got from that other guy and how you would never do that.. Tell her how you feel about her..look into her eyes and be compassionate about it.. and tell her that you've got everything she could ever need because... (tell why you'd be the best bf for her) and then say.. and that's why you should be mine..


Don't rehearse too much either.. just get an idea of what you would like to say.. but don't repeat it over and over.. it has to be in the moment if you want it to be special and romantic

Good Luck :]

Answer 2

It might be a good idea to be there for her as a friend first, and then date her. If she just broke up, she may not be ready for a relationship and the rejection might be more to you than it should, and that could hurt yall. You definitely dont want her being in a new relationship just to get back at a cheating ex. If you don't want to wait, find out what she really likes, personal touches make any moment romantic.

Answer 3

Telling the girl what qualities you find strong in her, and telling her you support those facts. Don't rush her into anything since she recently broke up, it could ruin your chances. Hang out first as friends and work your way up to dinners together. When you do, even just buying one flower can send a romantic message. Appreciate her for what she is and it could lead to something more. Do not become the guy she cries on and don't become a rebound. Slower is hard but better.

Answer 4

Well, I'd wait atleast a week.


If she likes cute romance:
find out her favorite foods/drinks, and find a nice place to go (this would really help if you lived by a beach) Have the place all set up with candles lit and everything, go pick her up, and bring her there. Make sure she has the time of her life, (key thing here: dont run out of stuff to talk about, it makes awkward moments) While dropping her off back off at her place, tell her how you feel, and throw in 4 or 5 compliments, then pop the question.

Be sure to let me know how it went ;)

Answer 5

The most romantic thing you can do is be sensitive to her feelings. If she just broke up, then wait. Be a friend. Be neutral. Ask her to neutral places with plenty of room to stay or go as she pleases. Don't try to get her alone, unless SHE indicates that this is what SHE wants. Read her cues and be super sensitive to her healing process.

Don't try to kiss her or get too close--because she'll still be kissing him when her eyes are closed.

Answer 6

Focus only on her when you speak....look her straight in the eyes and ask her. , no nervous fiddly twitches bwahahaha.......just calm, adult connunication. BUT prepare a reaction if she rejects your @ ss......if she says no or gets annoyed, dont run away or give up, just say "well...maybe some other time ok?" be prepared to gently negotiate with her if shes not entirely swept off her feet at your first try.....see it all happen in your mind the way you want it to go, practice in a mirror if you have to....then go to her and ask her if she would go out witchoo. Stand there and enjoy the moment coz there is something exhilerating about facing your fears that way. Smile, smell nice, dress very nice and remember to focus only on her, forget the world , forget your job, forget everything and focus on her.

Answer 7

Romantic is good, but remember not to come on too strong, since you two never date before, if u come on too mushy, it might scare her.

Might be you can try having lunch with her and tell her how she has change your life, and that she indeed is a sincere person.

Instead of trying to come up with made up scene, just be yourself, and tell her who you are, what you stand, and how you will stand behind her.

Less is more.

Before you finish your confession, you might give her two movie ticket that she might share with one of her friends, and if she phone you back and ask you if you could go to that movie with her, you win the jackpot

:)

Answer 8

First you need to be a friend she is probably going through alot right now. And if you ask her out now soo soon she could possibly take that you only after her for one thing. Just let her know you like her but make it clear that you respect her and the most important thing to you is that your friendship come first. she would appreciate that. GOOD LUCK

Answer 9

Well, when asking a girl out, there's a fine line between romantic and creepy. Save the romantic questions for when you have a ring, and just be charismatic and charming.

Answer 10

Well you shouldnt do it to hastily, thats romantic, that you take the time. When you do ask her out promise her you wont hurt her and you know she has been with alot of jerks, but you gonna prove to her your one of the guys in this world that would do anything to make her happy. Get down on your knees grab her hand and ask the question its adorable. i know its like engaging but its sweet and she'll think it sweet unless your stalkerish