It makes me cry everytime i think about her moving!
2007-07-28 15:07:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If i were in your shoes i would feel just about the same if not worse my grandmother was my second mother she was always there for me so if she moved away and was getting married again i would be a mess! But you gotta ask yourself something Is you grandmother happy to be moving with her fiance? Do you love her with all your heart? If the answer is yes to both than you should not worry. Think of your grandmother's happiness. Also you could ask your grandma if it would be alright to meet the guy. If he's too far call him up if he loves your grandma he'll love you too and he'll be more than happy to get a call from you. Share your thoughts with him let him know you're anxious about the whole thing.And if he's a stand up guy he'll talk with you freely and be respectful and understanding. All in all one of the most loving things you can do is be there for your grandma and respect her decision.
2007-07-28 15:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by la loca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your grandma and tell her you'll miss her. You can suggest her if you can talk more often and with the technology today nothing is impossible. Still keep in touch her with who knows you might visit her soon or she can pay you a visit there. Ask your grandma also if she can introduce you to her new fiance at least you'll have the chance to know the guy even just through the phone.
2007-07-28 22:14:14 · answer #2 · answered by ☺ĦЄŖ§ĦЄ¥☺ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never had Grandmothers who paid any attention to me. I, on the other hand, now have 3 ADORABLE young Grandchildren, and I can't IMAGINE moving away from them!! I'm so sorry for you!! My Grandchildren and I have time together at least every other day and they are so DEAR!! I can't say anything that would make you feel better--but I DO KNOW that you will be an incredible loving Grandmother when the time comes!! I DO hope you can go visit her--I'll bet she will find that this new alliance is not what she thought it was! I hope that she learns soon that her GRANDCHILDREN are the priceless gift of life!!!!
2007-07-28 22:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by Martell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you sweet thing you! I'm sorry.
Let her know how much you love her and how much you'll miss not having her close by. Tell her you want to meet her fiance because you want to know who she's with and you want to feel better about her moving with him.
But you know, just because she's moving doesn't mean you can be in constant contact with her. You can call her often, send her letters, or even email her. Ask that she do this with you often. And just think, maybe you can travel to her house on holidays. Spend little vacations with your grandma. You'll see, it'll be ok. :)
2007-07-28 22:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by magikal01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like you are up-set. Call or write your Grandmother and tell her how you feel. That you will miss her, that thinking about her moving makes you tear full, and that you would feel so much better if you could meet her fiance so you felt more comfortable about that. Be nice, be honest, don't whine, tell her how you feel. You might be pleasantly surprised!
2007-07-28 22:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by crittersitterjenna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? Absolutely nothing! This is your grandmother. Be happy for her. Be grateful that she isn't in a nursery home or dead. Let her enjoy the last bit of her life. It's understandable that you will be missing her. Call her on a regular basis. Tell her you are happy for her and that you love her.
2007-07-28 22:13:51 · answer #6 · answered by love_dont_judge 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wish her luck. Love her lots. And do you best to keep in touch with her. You want her to be happy, right?
2007-07-28 22:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by ~Brenda~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋