drama for your momma?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 yrs and for about 2 yrs now we are always fighting b/c of his parents!!They treat him like hes 15 yrs old and hes 20! They like him home at a certain hr sometimes and they only want him to go out every other night "or else it takes time away from his family" which he cant stand by the way (i mean he loves them but he gets annoyed)! AND when hes home his mom and dad treat him like a slave "son do this son plz do that" bla bla bla while his sister sits on her *** all day! WELL to make a long story short his family (aunts and cousins) cant stand me b/c i dont like to hang out around there during parties and stuff and I "make him leave"!! which I dont! I really like his parents but they think that b/c he lives under their house he HAS TO DO whatever they say and I hate it! HELP how can I make this end?????

Answer 1

Share your feelings with him. Suggest to him to move out of his parents house and find his own place.

Answer 2

you can take advantage of that situation: 1) know where your b/f is when he is not with you, so you dont have to worry about where he been. 2) if he's parent's is strict as you say as they are, you would certainly know you b/f would'nt have any other girl besides you. 3) if they treat them as a "slave" then that's not good, but think of this-- he is obedient, he's a good son... "get what i mean?" JUST DONT ABUSE IT. 4) if you and your b/f where already together for 5 years and hes parents know, certainly they must see somethin in you that they like.

Answer 3

Good Grief!! You need a MAN, not a BOY!!! Nothing is going to change! The only way you can make it end, is to end your relationship with this little Mama's boy!! You deserve BETTER!! Go it alone for a while until you meet the MAN you deserve!!! They are out there, but you have to look AND expect a man who deserves you!!!!

Answer 4

As long as he lives under their roof, he *does* need to do what they ask of him.

Why doesn't he move out?