I can't forget her and she is the only woman for me. What can I do? She has stopped being my friend because she said I need to snap out of it. I can't forget here and have nobody else but her.
2007-07-28 14:50:07 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ha, there was a question about a 50 year old women that wanted to know if there was a 17 year old kid was too young for her. Everyone said no, but I said yes. Yell at the people on here because I think they blow up your spot.
2007-07-28 14:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is being honest kind and sincere to you. She realises that you love her but also that you will find problems ahead, you will be given so many problems by people outside the relationship because of the age difference. That it would not be possible to have children, something you may want in later life and of course there is the fact that she may pass away quicker than you. Everything has to be looked at, she has seen the pitfalls. I do feel that perhaps you should have a break from each other and try to meet people nearer your own age and you may find you meet someone that you will fall in love with. You are so young and have a lot of life and living to do. Please listen to her.
2007-07-28 21:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow - sounds like you have an Oedipus complex. She's right, you need to date girls your own age but she is just way too old for you. I mean, she could almost be your grandmother let alone your mother. Did you lose your mom at a young age or something? That may have something to do with it. You really need to forget about her. Besides, couldn't she go to jail if she messed around with you? Anyway, what could you possibly have in common with a 50 y.o. woman??
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oedipus_complex
2007-07-28 21:57:01 · answer #3 · answered by Be me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh son you need to listen to your mother oops I mean the 50 year old woman, find somebody your own age
2007-07-28 21:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by pookster4262 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll make this quick. I'm dating someone much older than myself, but I know it's who i want to be with. Take some time away from her, date a couple other girls, if you still can't forget her tell her you tried but want to be with her.
2007-07-28 21:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does someone have 2 accounts and are posting as both the kid and the woman?
Get a grip whoever you are...if this is for real, let it go and concentrate on chicks your own age...if it's bogus, karma will catch up with ya. âº
2007-07-28 21:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a easy question to answer. Take her advice and find someone your own age.
2007-07-28 21:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by Stacey J. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like with age comes wisdom. She is right. You are young. We all have crushes/puppy love at that age. We all must move on.
2007-07-28 21:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by K H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always hard accepting that fact that you can't be with someone but honestly, you need to move on. I know that everyone says just give it time but it really helps, trust me!
2007-07-28 22:00:35 · answer #9 · answered by monz01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She tells you that because she has to. If she got involved with you, that is statuatory rape. Plus, if she went places with you everyone would think she was your mom. It is just a feeling and it will pass.
2007-07-28 21:54:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋