tell me what should I do?, how can I handle this situation?
2007-07-28 14:19:57 · 12 answers · asked by hottie688 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to take him to one side, tell him one more time that it is over, that you intend to get on with your life and suggest he does the same. Ask him not to send any more letters and if he does, they will go in the bin. Also, tell him, if he keeps bothering you, that is stalking which is against the law. Then, I suggest that you go out with friends, go to clubs or whatever, of interest and ignore him. If he persists, then do have a word with the Police to see if they will give him a warning to stay away.
Good luck
2007-07-28 14:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be really easy to go back with your ex if you aren't involved with someone else or if you don't like being alone.
Obviously there's a reason why you aren't together anymore. Remember it! Write it on the mirror if you have to ... MOVE ON!!! Make yourself busy ... Your ex will catch on and move on too.
2007-07-28 14:24:20 · answer #2 · answered by BigBadBoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not hard, just say "NO"....see. really easy. If that doesn't work, tell him you just got a restraining order on him and to stop sending you letters from stalkersville.
2007-07-28 14:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by JJisconfused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like him, maybe hes changed. everyone deserves another chance. but if you have a boyfriend you really like then explain in a nice way that you've moved on. but be very understanding about it and try to be friends with him.
2007-07-28 14:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by stefi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop and it isnt going to work and stand your ground, dont make it look like he has a chance and eventually he will move on.
2007-07-28 14:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by jen w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him face to face to seriously stop it. if he continues get a restraining order. lets hope it doesnt go that far. whatever you do, dont give in to his game.
2007-07-28 14:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not hard at all to say no, just say it, and mean it.
2007-07-28 14:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him.
change your number if you can.
say NO... we all need to learn that one, anyway.
dont' open the love letters, return them.
2007-07-28 14:24:01 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not hard to say NO all you need to do is to recall why they are EX's
2007-07-28 14:23:00 · answer #9 · answered by billc4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont want him no more just tell him you dont want him hes prob just trying to get a booty call dont fall for it
2007-07-28 14:22:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋