Yep, i'm beating this one like a dead horse. My 32 yo bf told me while I was 7 mos preggo that he didn't want to have anything to do w/ me or the baby even though we both wanted it. He said we we couldn't have it (I assume he wanted me to get an abortion). I explained to him that this was impossible and immoral and I would not do it) I thought we could work something out. He sent me a horrible e-mail the next day telling me to go f##k myself and that he had another gf and that she was preggo. Then he denied it 2 weeks later, but he doesn't call me anymore or check on me. What do you think happened? We'd been together for 2 years, this was a shock. Why wouldn't he have said something sooner? He works with his family and they don't even know? I'm have my theories but want other opinions.. I'm doing well financially and am very healthy, but my emotions are shot. My friends and family have been very supportive and I've been talking to a lawyer about child support.
2007-07-28 13:58:57 · 11 answers · asked by pussnboots333 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Girl, you got a peice-of-crap boyfriend. Dump him NOW! Don’t talk to him, ignore him, forget him. Get another guy who will love you for you AND your new baby.
This guy is obviously self-centered, didn’t want and can’t take the responsibility and goes out with other women behind your back! FORGET HIM! FORGET HIM! Forget this stupid guy!
Once you are happy, he will most likely try to spoil your relationship. Break contact with him. Don’t let him come back, no matter WHAT he says. A horrible relationsip is brewing between you...DON’T LET IT HAPPEN! I can’t emphasize it enough.
I repeat, find a different guy. Don’t think twice. Dump this sh!t.
2007-07-28 14:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man that is tough but never ever ever let him come back he must be a horrible man to take advantage of you make you preggo and then leave you when you need him the most. Keep holding on never take it out on your baby!! I know a women who has 4 kids one 5 one 19 and 1 3 months old and one 7 he called the 19 year old and said he didn't love them anymore and he went missing they found him at a camp ground and saw that he shot himself she got a call this fathers day and they finally knew you are lucky this didn't happen before he left at least your baby didn't see him go take care god bless you
2007-07-28 21:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by MaddieCole 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you nor your baby do not need this kind of stress at this point. i know its hard but forget him. think about your baby and make plans on how you are going to raise this baby by yourself without his assistance in anyway. he has made it clear that he does not want any part of this mess. be strong for the baby, chop this up as an expensive lesson learned and move on. make better choices next time. like get married that character of the man whose baby you are thinking about having. it going to be hard, but know that it will get better just keeping on pressing. leave him alone you can not make him be a father to this child. keep yourself heathy and let all the another mess GO. wish you well. GodBless
2007-07-28 21:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would think at 32 he would know what he wants in life. who knows maybe he's getting scared but why would he even mention another girl? it's hard for us to figure out this guy that you've known for 2 years. What does your family and friends say about him? Sometimes they can see things you can't, remember they only want what best for you so let them help you as much as possible through this.
2007-07-29 00:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-07-29 15:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have a brain tumor? I'm not trying to be funny, but that's the only reason I can come up with since apparently you got pregnant on purpose because you both wanted to.
2007-07-28 21:04:13 · answer #6 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People could have many issues which play into making poor choices including but not limited to mental illness.
2007-07-28 21:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy has some issues... i can't say what they are because i don't know him...
Whether they are committment issues, or fear, i'm not sure.
I'm glad you have a supportive family and good friends who are there for you.
Take care of you...
2007-07-28 21:03:14 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has a brain tumor alright hes sick in the head ' go to his family tell them what hap pend to you and him
2007-07-28 21:42:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then go to his parents., bring with you ur father and mother ok??? but u know wat? just leave him alone., prove and show him that u can be a good mother to your child even he's not with you., she's just a waste of time., but please, let his parents know about what you are facing ryt now.,.
2007-07-28 21:04:28 · answer #10 · answered by JENNYGEE 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋