First off let me just tell you im on my dad's side and i wanna live with him. Hes very very mad. His face is red right now. Anyway, today we went to see a new apartment that we were gonna move into. We get a room and a bath and share the kitchen and living room. So that means we are gonna move in with a guy. Now, from my mom's side its not a good idea. She doesnt wanna live in a room where theres 3 people. Then after we left me and my mom started screaming in the car. They were arguing, obviously. My dad has payed the rent and bills for about 3 years now. The first year my mom & dad worked together. Then my mom stopped working with my dad. My mom has been laying around, being on the computer and doing nothing. She didnt even try out for a job. Now heres the main part of this situation. My mom wants to take me and go back to our country. We have no house or anything there. She has no job. What are we gonna do there? Continues...
2007-07-28 13:44:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Stay in the US and survive, if she leaves she might never make it back. Are you legal? if not the anti immigration sentiment in this country will make it real fukking hard to get back in. Stay with Dad, mom needs to get off her *** and get a job
2007-07-28 13:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by woodenturkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your parents have some issues, and they probably aren't working them out. Your father is angry, your mother sounds completely depressed (depressed people don't do things they enjoy anymore, sometimes quit working, and just "lay around" as you say).
depression is an illness sometimes brought on by situation, sometimes it's in a person's chemistry. if your mom is depressed it's not a "fault", but a medical problem which needs to be addressed.
perhaps this is a good time to get your parents together and let them know you hope they can work out their problems because it's been very hard on you... maybe this will give them some food for thought.
i'm sorry you're going through this. take care of yourself.. hugs
2007-07-28 20:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 12 and above, in a custody herein, you can decide with which parent you want to live with. If you are under 12, the country doesn't allow her to live out of the country without his consent. You should have your dad look into this.
2007-07-28 21:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by lilia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its real problem in struggling years of immigrents.
But never lose heart should be ur mantra
so try to adjust with situation and u will be going to
have pretty bright future
its ur responsibility to show ur love to her and calm her down
ur her son.
2007-07-28 21:28:11 · answer #4 · answered by Wondrer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck friend....
2007-07-28 20:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by Alucard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋