I dated someone for a little bit two years ago and felt like we weren't connecting, so I broke it off, which hurt her. We remained friends, but not close. However, lately, I've been seeing more of her, and I've realized it was a mistake not to have stayed with her. A few weeks back, I invited her over for dinner. It felt like a date -- she even wore an attractive outfit.
Then things went into crisis mode at her job, and she disappeared for a few weeks. Also, her replies to my emails were really short (if she did reply) -- I wasn't sure what to make of that, so I stopped pestering her. But, last weekend, she invited me over to her apartment to hang out and watch some movies. We had a good time, but I'm not sure if it was a date (and I didn't work up the nerve to ask). I emailed her an invite to a music festival this weekend, but she said it wasn't her kind of thing and declined. I asked her if she had other plans, but she hasn't replied.
Any opinions on what's going on with her?
2007-07-28 13:34:58 · 9 answers · asked by Blenderhead 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She was in fact actually busy with work, putting in late nights and weekends. She bailed on a number of get-togethers with other friends, too.
2007-07-28 13:47:21 · update #1
who knows? one day...when you get back together(maybe) you can ask her what was up with that.
and if you don't get back together-than yall aren't meant to be
2007-07-28 13:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tip: Don't date a girl not into music festivals, unless you listen to really really really awful music. What is your type of tune?
PS. She is acting a little weird. Personally, she doesn't sound that into you, but I could be wrong. So you don't run into this reply, don't reply thing. Call her, if she never picks up or never returns your calls, forget about her. Then if she does call you in a month or something out of the blue. You ask her what's her problem? Is she crazy? Short term memory loss so she forgets about you? What. She sounds like she's sending mix signals, and that's really hard to figure out.
2007-07-28 20:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie, she's not that into you. She is probably doing things with you because she doesn't have any other things going on. Go after a girl that will "stalk" you. She doesn't sound that interested. And the work thing...that's just an excuse.
You deserve better. Go find another girl with fewer complications. If it is a match you will know quickly. These simmer and wait relationships are never fulfilling. You need a relationship that is on fire.
2007-07-28 20:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by Kelli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps she likes to get together with you once in a while, and maybe she sees/dates other men too?
she does seem to like you. maybe she doesn't want to have just one person to do things with at this time in her life.
take care
2007-07-28 20:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you both like each other until you get around one another. Strange but you both might just like what you think it will be like but then at contact it is a disappointment.
Or she is using you to rebound.
hmmm.... not sure.
2007-07-28 20:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by aloha_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's taking it slow because she got hurt the first time around is my guess.
2007-07-28 20:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by texas tornado 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is afraid to trust you again...you broke her heart once already, perhaps she is not willing to take that chance again.
2007-07-28 20:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she forgets about you already...haha
2007-07-28 20:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by azhzurin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to push it more..
she wants you to lead her..
2007-07-28 20:43:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋