Im 16 years old in high school and a virgin. Im not planning on having sex anytime soon. I have goals and I don't want sex messing up my future! So, I really don't know that much about sex.
Most of my friends know that I am a virgin and respect that. The other night me and my friends were hanging out and they started talking about sex. My friend Vanessa who is 16 too said she had her first orgasm with her boyfriend and she said she was going crazy. My other friend Christina who is 17 was saying she was with her boyfriend and he made her C*m really hard.
What's the difference if there is any? Sorry about the rude talk and sorry for being naive!
2007-07-28 13:17:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no difference. They are the same thing.
2007-07-28 13:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by CSSW 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most people will say there's no difference, but there kinda is one.
When you c u m, you get wet "down there." In other words, your vagina releases whitish discharge. That happens when a woman is really turned on. She doesn't have to be having an orgasm when she get discharge (or c u m s).
During an orgasm, all your muscles twitch and contract with huge intensity until they release completely. If you're getting an orgasm, you already had c u m earlier on, and probably have it at that moment too.
I hope that cleared things up for you! Really, if you're being smart about this and not planning on having sex yet, then you'll find out about all this once you get to the point in your life when you're ready for sex :)
2007-07-28 13:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anita 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
an orgasm is a really delicious feeling that you get deep between your legs, kind of like a rhythmic pulsation.
it sounds like your friends were just trying to "outdo" one another with the story, as I don't think there are too many teenage boys out there who know how to give an orgasm to a woman, or even care.
good for you for waiting. concentrate on your studies, and when the time is right, it will happen for you.
2007-07-28 13:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by freespirit 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, there's no difference. Orgasms very in strength depending on a number of factors. The verb "to c*m" is just a slang term for orgasm.
2007-07-28 13:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The difference is, at the age of 18, you will NOT have an unwanted child that needs taken care of for the next 18 yrs.
You will also, not have an a**hole for the babies father.
Sex is alot more than feeling. Alot of responsibility is involved as well. Those who do it for orgasms usually get pregnant.
The Rat
2007-07-28 13:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Bravo you for waiting...that's not something to rush into.
As for the terminology, c*m is just slang for an orgasm (also known as a climax) when it's used as a verb. When it's used as a noun, it refers to the ejaculate/semen of the male or fluid of the female (if she's a squirter).
2007-07-28 13:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well when you ***......you ***, but having the orgasm, you get this feeling inside of you that iit's hard to explain. There's this saying..........The ones that always brag about it, are probably not doing it............So I would think much about what your friends are telling you........And you should be proud of yourself for being a virgin.
2007-07-28 13:51:50 · answer #7 · answered by shyra w 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no difference. They are both talking about an orgasm.
2007-07-28 13:20:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it is not rude at all. well, an orgasm is when one reaches the highest point of excitement but i doubt your friend did if that was the first time she did it b/c how would she know.
*** is when stuff comes out the privates when they reach orgasm
2007-07-28 13:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
To c*m (can't believe that's censored, but that's america for you) means to have an orgasm - it's just slang.
2007-07-28 13:21:27 · answer #10 · answered by Mordent 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
good job for waiting. sorry i cant answer your question. its going to be hard waiting but just keep on living how you are and things will be better in the end
2007-07-28 13:35:37 · answer #11 · answered by joejonasgurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋