he's been my close friend and secretly had a thing for me for 3 yrs; he's outgoing but the "shy type" w. girls; he tells me everything and respects/adores me is what people say; he's a late bloomer (20's) - never had a girl, kissed, "experiences".
I'm the first girl that's ever looked at him as "more than a friend" and felt mutual about him. He's very sweet, gentle, RESPECTFUL w me
ONE NIGHT this is what we did:
- slow, long sensual kisses on the lips/neck/my chest
- always held me close
- put my leg on him
- grabs/ smacks my ***
- frenching (once, he got shy and smiled away)
- i straddled him and licked all over his neck and ears and went crazy and he put his hands underneath my clothes up along my back
- just looked into my eyes for minutes and would play with my hair
we could have done more but i was torchuring him and made him wait 'til the next time
It's been a couple months since this has happened? Is he still thinking about it? DId i open up his sex drive?
2007-07-28 12:52:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's my best friend and personally, both of us...it's hard for us to have relationships right now...he's not just "some guy" he's the guy, i want to be able to be in that right time and place in my life for me to REALLY committ to him and for him to be a priority...like what he said, he wants something "real, serious, and long lasting" with me
2007-07-28 12:58:52 · update #1
You opened his sex drive and engaged top gear and turbo boost -------then you stamped on the brakes and had him snap frozen like a couple of peas !!!!
Cheers Pete
2007-07-28 13:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by Realist 2006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let him know that you are a sexually interested person. However, it may be good that he hesitated to turn what has been a friendly relationship to look forward to, with social possibilities, into a purely, sexual entanglement. Do you know each others friends or families, likes and dislikes? What kind of places have you gone, socially? If the answer to any of those qustions is NO/nowhere, the "closeness" of your friendship cannot really be confirmed. Why would you even want to open up his sex drive if you have already known him 3 years and his romantic interest in you has been "secret"? Hopefully, you did not close up his social curiosity while in the process of opening up his sex drive. You need him to reveal his romantic intentions toward you and get them out into the open before you 'open or close' either of the two doors above. Keep verbal communications going between you and see if you can get him to date you SOCIALLY, before you ruin a potentially successful friendship with animal-like behaviors both of you may regret. You may have frightened him away.
2007-07-28 20:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol thats sounds like an awesome night.. poor guy u made him crazy! yes u did open up his sex drive and yes he still thinks about it every single day... next time.. give him what he deserves ;].... and hope u guys become a couple.. seems like he truely cares for u.. especially when he PLAYED with ur hair and looked DEEPLY into ur eyes.
good luck!!!!!
2007-07-28 19:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by cutey pa-tudy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww. That's sad. He's probably thinking he did something you didn't like. Poor guy. He's probably too scared now.
2007-07-28 19:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by S p o r t y.C h i c k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably still thinking about it, but why has it been a couple of months since anything more has happened?
2007-07-28 19:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by id 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys have a button. Once you press it, its on. But you have to know how. I say that you deffinatly pressed his button sweetie. If you didnt wana do that, then talk to him, but if that was your goal, you did good :)
2007-07-28 19:56:35 · answer #6 · answered by chelsea =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha he probally went home and jerked off for an hour after that hahaha
2007-07-28 19:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by hellzfirex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can imagine he had a major case of blue balls haha poor him. why has it been a couple of months? he probably wants more than that
2007-07-28 19:56:37 · answer #8 · answered by babylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he's still thinking about it he's a guy that's what we do. We think about sex.
2007-07-28 19:56:01 · answer #9 · answered by Sammy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that turned me on, just reading about it :P
hihi i think he loved it.... and is hanging for more - literally.
:P
so have some more fun... sounds like you were enjoyin it too...
i think you made this guys day..... if not week.. and so on....
2007-07-28 19:56:03 · answer #10 · answered by Kendi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋