i have this guy friend. he knows the 2 guys who i like ( i seriously dont know how) me and him were talking over IM today and he was like "i am going to tell them at band camp u like them both!" and i think he was serious. one of the guys, my friend thinks he likes me and the other one just doesnt talk. the first one i want to like me back but i dont want him knowing tht i like his best friend too! i mean i like him more but his friend is really cute too but doesnt talk. please help me?!
2007-07-28 10:40:17 · 29 answers · asked by ummm....i dont know! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok people i like 2 guys. i know which oen i am going for. the one my friend thinks likes me. i just dont the guy friend i was talking to to tell both guys and ruin my chance with him.......what do i do to get the guy not to tell!!!!!!! i know which one to choose!
2007-07-28 10:48:24 · update #1
lol so complicated... you've got to choose lady! You can't have them all!
2007-07-28 10:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by GucciGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like an outgoing gal, which strikes me a little odd that you'd be attracted to someone who won't utter a word! Although opposites attract, if you really do like the "1st guy" the most, and he seems to have similar feelings, then just concentrate on seeing where things go with him. If all else fails, maybe you could give shy guy a chance - but in my experience, messing with 2 best guy friends is never a good idea. Stick with one, and that's your best shot. Best of luck to you! =)
2007-07-28 10:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by dreamin delux 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it seems like it will be the end of the world if people you like find out, but it really never is as bad as you think it will be. Maybe you should ask your guy friend to make sure he doesn't tell both of them, pick one guy for him to tell if he has to tell one of them so that it doesn't ruin your chances with either of them.
Guy's do like to tease their friends though, so I would also be prepared for him just to pretend like he will tell the 2 guys and then never hear about it again...because he could just be trying to get you to freak out.
2007-07-28 10:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by Kimi Cabanna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAY TOO COMPLICATED!!
THIS IS HOW YOUR QUESTION SHOULD BE WORDED:
"I have a guy friend who knows these 2 guys that i like. We were talking over IM today and he said "I am going to tell them you like them at band camp" and i think he was serious. My friend thinks that one of the guys I like likes me back, and the other never talks, so who would know? I like the 1st one more, and i don't want him to think that I like his friend more. Please help me!"
2007-07-28 11:46:48 · answer #4 · answered by *Forget me not* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOLOL I am absolutely, positively not going to make ten points on this answer, but I just can't resist making a comment about how unbelievably complicated everything seems to be these days in the "Dating Game"
One guy knows two other guys that I know and I don't know how he knows them. This guy thinks one of the guys likes me, and I like the other guy but I don't want him to know I like him, and this guy friend says he's gonna tell them both that I like them.
Whew, I'm giddy. What a relief to just be comfortably and happily married to one great guy, and never have to play that dating game ever again.
2007-07-28 10:49:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if he tells them ------- you won't have too then he's doing your work for you. Then you will at least know how they feel about you, there is nothing wrong with liking 2 different guys. Get to know them both, then you will know if you really do like them. One of them could end up being a jerk after you get to know them, then they aren't so cute anymore.
2007-07-28 10:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw, hm it's perfectly natural to like more than one person you fancy something about this guy and not about the other but still attracted to something about the other guy. it's perfectly normal so don't worry, but i adivse you to figure out which one you like more and stick with that cause if they both you don't wanna be dating two guys. tell your guy friend that it's your business and he has no right to tell the guys you like about it. it's your decision and he shouldn't have any involvement. oh and for the guy that doesn't talk don't worry some guys are shy just try to start a conversation with him. good luck :) and band camp rules!!! (i'm in band)
2007-07-28 10:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by sailortatu104 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that they had an contract in line with believe that they wouldnt grasp out with the different intercourse, then the guy who broke this contract is obviously interior the incorrect. it is not an quite logical contract, and that i do no longer think of a relationship is quite healthful in the event that they experience the could desire to make that promise. yet a promise is a promise, and breaking a promise seems to trump all. And, revenge is quite junior intense. If the guy cares in regards to the girl he shouldn't opt to "come back at her" i think of this boy and lady could possibly have a communicate to reevaluate the best judgment in promising one yet another they gained't have friends of the different intercourse.
2016-10-13 00:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by joleen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell the one you like more that you like him and ask him if he likes you too. If he thinks you like his best friend, tell him that you're over that. If he declines you go out with the other guy or find somone else.
2007-07-28 10:44:43 · answer #9 · answered by Dorphinoct 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go for the one that talks. Especially if you are social. Not saying ignore him. And you either need to tell them yourself or deal with the fact that they will know when your friend tells them
2007-07-28 10:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by Mocha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call up the guy you like more and tell him the way you feel about him. Tell him you couldn't decide between him and the other friend but you chose him. Good Luck.
2007-07-28 10:43:32 · answer #11 · answered by loulo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋