How Can U Get A boy To Leave U Alone With Out Hurting His Feelings?

Question

Someone likes my cuzin,but she dont like him...Who can she tell him with out hurting him,she doesnt like him?...Please help...

Answer 1

He going to get his feeling hurt anyway it goes. Whether you tell him or just ignoring him. Ignoring him doesn’t make the problem go away. Depending on how long she ignores him. Most people would have the sense that if someone ignoring their phone calls, giving them the cold shoulder, not visiting them anymore or even at all. They not interested in them. To me that common sense. Even a baby doesn’t like certain type of food or toy will reject it. Rejection and disappointment s are part o life. It time for her and him to get use to it. Even Jesus was rejected. It going to happen to all of us more than one time.


I wouldn't’t recommend her to tell him alone. He might act crazy. You or someone needs to go with her. Some people can’t handle rejection and become dangerously and posses. Also by someone coming with her. If he does try to talk to her again or bother her. She is going to have to get a retraining order on him. I would try to found out where he lived and any useful information before she tells him she not interested. Just in case it becomes a legal matter.
It sound like she might be in danger. She got to be careful, including you or anybody else that goes with her.

Answer 2

She should look serious and say,"I'm glad to have you as a friend."

If he has the courage to ask her out or spend time with her, she needs to say, "As friends." She may then be vague about accepting a time or place. Most guys will not pursue a girl for long that doesn't show enthusiasm for spending time with them.

No need for a big explanation and it saves him face. She needs to treat him with respect, though. After all, he's paying her a compliment by expressing interest. (I hope this guy is a nice sort of person, not weird in a bad sort of way!)

Good luck!

Answer 3

She's going to have to hurt his feelings if she wants him to leave her alone. Boys don't understand subtlety. She's just going to have to tell him straight up that she doesn't like him. Otherwise, she'll be stringing him along which is just cruel.

Don't tell him you want to be friends because he'll only see that as an opening. Especially if you don't like anything about him.

Answer 4

She can let him down easily, but it'll still hurt his feelings. He'll get over it though, dont worry. I think the nicest way to say this is, "Im flattered you like me, I really am! But Im really just not interested in you. Im sorry." He'll wonder why, and all she has to say is she cant help who shes attracted to. I had to tell this to a guy who asked me out over the summer. I felt bad. But he wasnt mad, hes over it, and we agreed to being friends. I have to give him props though, he had guts to call me and tell me straight up that he liked me!

Answer 5

If he really likes her.. then I do not think there is anyway around not hurting him but it is better to get it over with soon so you can relax. Just say if you are young... 16 or less... just say that she is not into boys right now or her dad will not let her date a boy.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

If he likes her, but she doesn't like him; she can't avoid hurting his feelings. He'll be hurt because he can't have the girl he wants, but he'll get over it in time. She should just be nice to him and tell him that she doesn't feel the same way about him. She should say in a nice, calm, and unirritated voice. Its just a crush, so he'll get over it.

Answer 8

She will just have to come right out and tell him how she really feels. She doesn't have to be mean, just matter of a fact. He might be hurt, but he will recover.

Answer 9

Hiya, My friend had the exact same problem,
Firstly, she told him she was dating a guy she met online.
But that never worked, because the guy that kept going everywhere with her kept asking questions.
So she came out and simply told him
' Can you please stop trying to find me all the time, because it is freaking me out, feels like your stalking me, and your not my type of guy, so please just lets be friends and that's it nothing more, and if you can't accept that, then I can't be your friend at all. '
He finally got the picture after she had to be honest about how she felt, it did upset him yes, and his feelings were hurt.
But your cousin will just have to be honest if she wants to be left alone.
Good Luck to her

Answer 10

if he can't pick up on her hints,then it's unnavoidable,he will have his feelings hurt.But that is just gonna be a learning experience for him,she has to take him aside,and politely tell him that she's not interested in him in a romantic way.