we been dating for a month now and sorry to say i fell in love with him and he has told me on different occations that he wasnt ready for a serious relationship but we keep spending more time together and he seems like he really likes me then i think he gets scared that he really would like me more than he wanted what does this relationship mean he has really been hurt before by his ex really bad what is going through his head and should i move on and forget this but the worst part i already fell in love
2007-07-28 08:35:11 · 6 answers · asked by babykate1234 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well for starters he doesn't have an ex yet.. they are separated not divorced. You need to stop seeing him until which time he is a divorced man. Then if the feelings are still there, go for it....... but until then, stay away.... he is on the rebound and you could get hurt very badly, especially if he goes back to his wife..........
2007-07-28 08:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your deal? There are so many men to choose from and you want one who is married. Hello!!! If he is telling you he has been separated for almost two years, doesn't that tell you he really does not want to end his marriage? Ok, that man does not love you. He wants to play with you as long as your gullible enough to let him. We teach men how to treat us. No matter how you look at it, HE IS MARRIED!!!! Get out, and leave the drama for him to deal with. You can do better than an emotional, insecure man who has a wife. Find a man who will treat you like a queen, that is servant behavior. Take Care. Best Wishes.
2007-07-28 15:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by flygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After only a month I would just cut my losses and run. You don't want to be the rebound chick do you? Right now he is usesing you to keep his mind off of everything. If they have been apart for that long then they must be moving into a divorce right now, and that is always hard.
2007-07-28 15:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by Brandi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely do not try to pressure him. his heart sounds deeply bruised, but he seems to be letting you extremely close. right now he still has his guard up. stick with him and see how things will go. sounds to me that there is something there!! gl
2007-07-28 15:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by candylicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, find a single guy who doesn't have baggage.
2007-07-28 15:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new man.
2007-07-28 15:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋