hey im going into highschool and ive like never had a boyfriend. i know theres nothing wrong with that but i kinda feel left out when all my friends are out on dates. im not really that popular, and im more of the really quiet, nice to everyone type.. guys at my school dont really pay any real attention to me when it comes to going out and stuff, but guys that dont go to my school (that i met this summer at the lake, camp, etc) think im adorable and really hott.. i just dont get it. i think its cause im way more outgoing during the summerr..or just cause i wear shorter shorts.. but yeah anyway im not the slutty type at all.. and i really really really would love a boyfriend.. oh yeah im going to highschool with the same people ive been going to school with and no more :(
thanks everyone!
2007-07-28 08:27:31 · 11 answers · asked by heyyyxo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha yeahh im not great at sports and im not a cheerleaderr. (just wanted to let u know hah)
2007-07-28 08:34:37 · update #1
kidding bout the shorts by the way
2007-07-28 08:36:23 · update #2
when u go out with ur friends in a group, try to be the leader of the group, so guys will pay attention to u. do more outgoing stuffs, involve in sports activities like cheerleader or something, there are lot of guys out there. wear something sexy not slutty, be more self respectful. good lucj
2007-07-28 08:32:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are either intimidated by your stunning beauty, or they are blind.
I know it sounds weird, but guys sometimes prefer to go after the hard to get type. You know, stuck up. Think they are hot and show it type.
The people you meet in school are still growing and so are you. So if you don't get a bf, don't worry about it. Talk to all the guys. If you have a bf and a really hot new guy comes along, you will be stuck with the first one and not free to talk to the new guy. So steady bf in high school can be a hindrance. Also you take the chance of getting too serious and may end up pg. So play the Field and enjoy your HS years. Find out what you like and what your values are and what you want for the future.
2007-07-28 15:37:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this problem when I was in high school, too. The best thing to do is just be yourself and find common interest as those around you to talk about. At summer camp, it's easier to find out what others have in common with you (lol you're at camp) but at school everyone either talks about other people or about homework (at least that's what I remember).
Start by asking people you kind of know questions like, "How was your weekend?" or "How are you doing?" just to start a conversation. It's the best way to show people that you're friendly and outgoing (since you approached them first).
As for me, I never really cared about dating the guys from my school :) I was perfectly content with dating guys from different school ^^
2007-07-28 15:33:19 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you more outgoing when you're at camp? Is it that you're around people that you have more in common with? If you're a sporty girl and not a flirty girl, then at camp I would assume that you can speak more easily to people.
If you could get that part of yourself over to school, then I think you'll have it made.
I don't think it's so much about the shorts you wear at camp because that would make you really hot, but they wouldn't say you're adorable. The adorable, I think, has to do more with your personality. But if you have any doubt, maybe to school you could wear cuter clothes but not more slutty. You don't want to send out the wrong message!
2007-07-28 15:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 17 and don't have a boyfriend but it is because i don't want one.. i've been asked out many times but I told them i would like to stay friends.. when you are in highschool I think it is a waste of time, all boys in high school (well most) just want one thing, im waiting until i'm out of high school and just maybe the guys will be more mature.. and also once im older and in university I will have my own car and i will be able to go out more with more money from having a job.. its a waste of time right now.. i've seen my friends got through like 5 guys in 5 months.. not worth it
2007-07-28 15:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you want a boyfriend....start talking to boys. A lot of guys are too shy to come talk to girls and might actually like you, but you would never know. Wear makeup and nice clothes and you will get noticed, trust me.
2007-07-28 15:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by celtic34pr1de 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to the guys instead of waiting for them to talk to u i love it when chicks do that it makes me feel better then me always starting the convo with them all the time
2007-07-28 15:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the first move, believe it or not guys are also scared/intimidated when it comes to asking a girl out.
2007-07-28 15:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by Mike Honcho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is Just How I feel......
Confidence should be importants and being more out there and fun.
2007-07-28 15:31:52 · answer #9 · answered by ?¿Whatcha Doin'?¿ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear a sexy mini skirt and whatever else shows ur curves and good perfume.
2007-07-28 15:31:22 · answer #10 · answered by Crown 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋