I had a crush on a guy for bout a year(& he knew idid). We hung out as friends for a while then 1 night he french kissed me, he was feeling my boobs & sucking on my nipples, then he tryed to undo my pants but i stopped him.most guys dont try that many things the first time they kiss a girl,right? so we started dating after that, but all we did was go to his house when his parents werent home & make out and every time he would ask me if i wanted 2 have sex, bout 2 weeks after we started dating i finally gave in & had sex with him, he didnt call me for 4 days after, then he called me to "hang out" all we did was go to his house and have sex,he didnt call me for about three days again, every time i see him he asks if i want to have sex, & latley when i call him hes allways with his friends & he'll act like im a burden calling him & be a jerk(i call MAYBE once a day) (when we do hang out hes really sweat to me & does listen when i say "no")does he just want sex or does he like me, HELP!!
2007-07-28 07:55:30 · 9 answers · asked by Ash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way im 15 and hes 16
2007-07-28 07:56:27 · update #1
Ashley....
Please read this very carefully and slowly. It is very important that you understand how serious your situation is. Whatever you do now, you must stop having sex with him. You are way too young to have sex at age 15. You could get pregnant and become a mother.....I don't think you want that. Remember, protection is not 100% and a condom can break at any time.
Also you need to fully realize that he is using you, every answer you've gotten so far from your questions, and you've asked alot of them, are all pointing to your "boyfriend" using you for sex. I wouldn't even call him your boyfriend. He is just simply taking advantage of you, and you really need to STOP seeing him. He realized that you have a crush on him and hes just being with you to get sex out of it.
Like you have said in your questions, ALL he wants is sex and after 2 weeks you gave in. You made a huge mistake because by doing that he really thinks you are easy so you really have to stop. There are just too many potential consequences that could ruin your life. Your situation is really not considered dating at all. All you do is go to his house and make out, have sex....well that is pretty much a booty call. He is treating you like a hooker, and the best part is, its FREE.
So please don't be so naive and be smart. I know you are very intelligent and you could make much better choices. Its good that you are having second thoughts and are coming to Yahoo Answers to ask for advice. so I really hope you are going to make the right choices as soon as possible.
A real relationship is supposed to have the couple know each other through friendship, dinner, movies, hanging out sessions, then after several months, and im talking about a long time of going on, THEN comes the sex. Some people don't even have sex until they are married, I understand that peer pressure and your friends at school and the people around you might have played into this factor but you really have to think what's best for yourself.
Please make the necessary correct decisions asap.
1. stop having sex with him (you could get in so much trouble, trouble with your parents, you might get pregnant, etc)
2. stop seeing him period, stop talking to him, stop being with him. (he has been using you ever from the start for sex, making out, etc, you should've been able to see that really easily)
3. A boyfriend is a guy that treats a girl with respect and dignity, not some guy who always wants sex and doesnt let you go from his lap. True, sex is great and any guy would love to have sex at anytime, but a relationship comes first and foremost and certainly your situation is NOT a relationship.
I hope you do the right things from now on and make the proper choices.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-07-30 18:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by Moore55 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but hes not into you that way. He only wants one thing and that's sex.
Of course hes all sweet when he sees you after 3-4 days .It's been 3-4 days without sex and for a guy that's long. I would stop thinking he likes you start thinking more he likes the sex. Sorry. There are better guys out there. He sounds like hes afraid to be honest with you .
2007-07-28 15:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys french kissed and feeling over each other and you two were not even boyfriend and girlfriend then yes he was just in it for sex, so badly that he tried to undo your pants, usually when girls "give in" and have sex usually the guy has already accoplished his goal, so whats the point in hanging out with you, plus another to look at, why did he always ask if you wanted to have sex, hes a sex freak
2007-07-28 15:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just seems like you're a booty call for him. i think you should totally stop seeing him and find a real guy that will respect you and want more than sex. good luck in what you decide.
2007-07-28 15:00:45 · answer #4 · answered by tina tay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should stop this friendship that actually is not a real frienship,my dear he just wants you for sex and he has found you easy and there is no love in it.so stop it.good luck
2007-07-28 15:12:17 · answer #5 · answered by shila m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me that he just likes you for the sex.
2007-07-31 14:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by Rocketmaniac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably has feelings for you but he's moving way to fast
2007-07-28 15:06:44 · answer #7 · answered by ncramone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wasting your time with this guy*.. Lose him ASAP*
2007-07-28 15:16:39 · answer #8 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably just sprung. but i think he likes u.
2007-07-28 15:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by Crown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋