Ok,so I'm kinda worried about me and my boyfriends relationship because I think that I'm being too much of a friend and not a girlfriend,here are a couple of examples,we play playstation together all the time(games like wrestling,football and shooting games),we watch wrestling together whenever it comes on,we have burping contest,and in the summer time we play football outside with our friends,we even wrestle together sometimes too...and I'm kinda worried that he might find somebody a little bit more romantical or something,I mean I'm very girly (well not really,I kinda used to be a tomboy when I was little so I still have a little roughness in me) but I dress girly and stuff,but that doesn't seem to matter...should I start to be more romantical,like go to resturants w/ candle lit dinner and stuff,and spend quality time together...I don't want to lose him!! HELP!!!
2007-07-28 07:53:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You seriously sound like every mans dream woman! He obviously loves you for who you are.. why would you want to change?
2007-07-28 07:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by neverdugdisco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best relationships are built as two best friends can be romantic as well. It's great you two share so many interests - however if you're worried about losing the "spark" just make sure that every once in a while you plan out a romantic evening for the two of you to be passionate. Overall though it sounds like you two have an awesome relationship so enjoy it!
2007-07-28 14:56:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your the same now as when you started going out.. and youve always done that stuff...THEN THATS THE WAY HE LIKES HE. He wouldn't have gone out with you in the first place if you didn't do that stuff. I think you have a really good balance. You dress girly and look attractive for him but he can have a great time with you. Thats what most guys love. Just be careful not to step over the manly line too much. Burping contests are almost crossing it. Have fun, just remember to still be lady-like at times too.
but he picked YOU and is DATEING YOU
which means... he likes Y-O-U
so don't sweat it hunny ;) i'm sure he adores you.
2007-07-28 15:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you guys have a great bond!
Its great to see you guys having so much fun together! If your worried your relationship isnt exposing any romance, plan a romantic date together. Whether its a picnic at night on teh beach or going tothe movies, or a restaurant, always add alittle romance to it. If you two arent into deep romance, just hold his hand, kiss him, and hug him, just those little things could be romanctic.
But if he's happy with how u two are now and doesnt care about the romance scnene but just spending time with u, then u shouldnt worry.
if u r uncertain, definitaly talk to him.
if u need more help just ask me because i can help u if u want more depth.
good luck!
tokio
2007-07-28 15:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well it wouldnt hurt being a lil romantic but you are being a great girlfriend now if you guys can feel confortable around each other doing this.... It's not easy to find a girl who is into the kind of stuff you guys do... But you dont need to worry you will know when it is time to get romantic.... But best believe in relationships you need to be a lover and a friend
2007-07-31 18:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by Joe W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We'll if the question ever arose in your relationship and he wants you to be more romantic and girlfriend-like then yes go for the late night rendezvous and lingerie in bed with music playing. But I have to tell you that if he likes doing things with you that he would normally do with his buddies then theres a possibility he might be gay or he just isn't a romantic person. Then again maybe it's not you who has the romance problem but him.
2007-07-28 15:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by SMX™ -- Lover Of Hero @};- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to him? Does he want a relationship that is more "romantical" as you put it?
Perhaps he enjoys having you as a gf because he enjoys you being willing to do things he likes and not gripe about it (like most girls would).
My advice is talk with him first, because although you may think your realtionship needs a change, it doesn't mean he will and your change, could be the end of your relationship!
2007-07-28 14:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about being to friendly, but yes mix it up you want to be romance. You don't want to be treated like one of the boys. Do you?
Make sure he knows, that get wined and dined. Spend some quality time together, take nice long walks together, hold hands etc.
Have a good weekend.
2007-07-28 14:57:50 · answer #8 · answered by That one 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to change who you are? Being true to yourself is probably what your boyfriend loves about you. Talk to him and use that as an indicator. Don't worry-you sound like you've got both feet planted firmly on the ground. Nice!
2007-07-28 15:01:26 · answer #9 · answered by Kiwi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should be how u r just add a little romance. what ur doing sounds fine, but it would be nice to romantic too. u should kiss him and hug him. go to the movies then dinner.
2007-07-28 14:58:20 · answer #10 · answered by Natalie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I cant tell your age from ur description, but if u are old enough to have sex bring him over and put on some sexy panties! And act more like a girl and not a friend. watch a movie together!
2007-07-28 15:00:38 · answer #11 · answered by stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋