Date cancelled!?

Question

I was supposed to go on a date on friday, he cancelled on that morning and said maybe another day next week.
I can't help but feel let down his excuse was that he is going out!
So i decided to blank him for a few days or at least not get in contact untill he does again me (so im not chasing him) and well he hasn't contacted me! I know he hasn't got credit but he can still call me from his home phone like he has before so what do you think i should do??

Answer 1

well Friday was only yesterday right? so i would say resist the temptation to call him. boys always want what they can't have. he would call u-its always the case. if he can't afford fone credit maybe he couldn't afford to take u out this time. hear him out b4 u start getting angry but wait 4 him to call coz its hes call to make not urs. give it a couple of day b4 u lock him off

Answer 2

OK harsh as this sounds - you are not in love, neither have you met your soulmate. Neither will your heart be broken You have never met this guy in the flesh, he has cancelled every date arrangement you have made. I think you are a little lonely and desperate to meet someone and are reading far too much into this than there actually is. Bottom line is that this guy is happy to chat and email, but not happy to meet you - and the main reason for that is that he is already married or has a g/f. To give him the benefit of the doubt - make one more arrangement to meet him and if he cancels on that then call it a day... There is no-one that would have valid excuses for cancelling 4 dates in a row. Good luck and be strong

Answer 3

I'm sorry, honey, but I'd say nothing. He may have changed his mind, found something that interests him more right now or a dozen other things. But if I know men at all, if he wanted you nothing would stop him. You are much better off to look elsewhere. Calling or chasing after him won't have the desired effect, I promise. Disappearing and allowing him to wonder where you are might.

Answer 4

His a flake, I really wouldn't expect much from him. Do not feel so bad, maybe it is a sign that this guys is not the right guy for you. If he calls you again and try to set up a date, it's up to you if you want to still go out with him, but I will just let this one go if I were you. There is really no reason for you to stress yourself out, his not worth it.

Answer 5

He sounds like a loser. Someone who doesn't have credit should be a BIG RED FLAG. If they can't manage to build themselves credit, why bother? You could get stuck with the bill. Find someone who's got their life a little more figured out.

Answer 6

At least he had the courtesy to CANCEL, the guy that was supposed to take me out, didn't even bother doing that - all he does is talk about going out, but when it comes to actually doing it, he skillfully navigates his way around it. I say, screw him, move on sweetie, there are plenty of fish to fry. Good Luck!!

Answer 7

just wait but dont feel sad because of it...he really may be very busy or something happened in his life(you never know what can happen...give him some time...if doesn't call you for next few days and you really want to hear or see him,call him...be just friendly,let him ask you out again..Good luck x x

Answer 8

Well u should try to call him and ask him whats up. If u don't want to do that than u can just move on and go with someone else.

Answer 9

He said MAYBE NEXT WEEK. He has moved on so you accept it and move on too. I know you feel raw but it will pass if you let it. Don't make a fool of yourself and chase him.

Answer 10

Ring some friends and go out and have fun and forget about the guy!