I'm concerned because, she needs a father figure in her life and she has low self-esteem so these older men give her what she is looking for.
2007-07-28 06:38:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for understanding NAN G
2007-07-28 06:44:30 · update #1
Thank Kitty :)
2007-07-28 06:46:18 · update #2
That's funny Brad. Thanks :)
2007-07-28 06:47:20 · update #3
You can only voice your concerns to her, and then just "be there" when she needs a friend. Too much age difference, I agree with you.
2007-07-28 06:42:20 · answer #1 · answered by NAN G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was 41 I had a girlfriend that was 18 and very much in love with me, when my wife came along she was 26 and they both wanted to marry me. I chose my wife because she was highly motivated. I also felt like I was robbing the cradle so to speak and wanted her to experience life among her own age group. Both of them were knockouts very beautiful and sexy. I just hope that the men in your girlfriends life are honorable men and will do right by her.
2007-07-28 06:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her"I am sorry an old grandpa is the best you can do for yourself.I think you could do better but since you do not think so,I hope you and paw paw are happy".Also remind her, his health wont be well for long and he wont want to do a lot of things like going to amusement parks and vacations etc because he is old and tired.
2007-07-28 06:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can do anything about your friend unless she is under age. Sometimes people have to make their own mistakes to learn, and you telling her she is wrong won't help a bit if she so determined to have this man in her life.
2007-07-28 06:43:45 · answer #4 · answered by pattimaris1675@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her have her fun. she will realize at some point that old guys are no fun any more and will quit doing that...but if she should love one she is an adult and can do what she wants....she will figure out she may be changing their diper and caring for them later on...hope she wakes up and move on tho.
2007-07-28 06:46:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hiya. i would have a chat to your friend. if she has low self esteam then she has probably no idea what she is doing. just ask her if shes ok and make sure she knows you are there for her,if it all goes **** up for her.. your a good friend by the sounds of it. sure she will see that your just looking out for her.x
2007-07-28 06:45:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately she might not take your advice but as her friend you can definitely talk to her about it. Just make sure you are very gentle and don't attack her for what she's doing. Let her know that you understand what she's doing and why but you don't think it's healthy. Encourage her to talk about her feelings with you.
2007-07-28 06:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is an adult it may well be that both parties have found what they need. This is not your business. Don't interfere.
It may be that you mean well and your motives are sincere, but she must lead her own life - stay clear.
2007-07-28 06:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by doshiealan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with me and find out for yourself why older men are better for her.
2007-07-28 06:41:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's happy and finding the fulfillment she seeks and needs then whats the problem?
2007-07-28 06:47:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋