I mean we dont know anyone's circumstances. Lets take for example someone who has been in an abusive reltionship, wondering why they deserved that and are in need of help. If you didnt know what happened to he/she, for them having such an average mood since you dont know their past. Should You judge them? or is it that the unconditional love you may share with them will bring much needed joy to their Spirit. Similarly now we do not know circumstances of so many people around the World. So why is okay to Judge and not to Love?
2007-07-28 02:48:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
The problem is not the Judging, it is the Judging Unfairly, that is the problem.
Judging others does not means automatically no Love. Your parents judge you and tell you what you should do. Does that means they don't love you! no.
With judging comes the caring, all depending on the person, and how they choice to view others. If you don't think of the other person, and want not to judge their circumstances, that will lead to not caring about what might happen to others, and the unwillingness to lend a helping hand.
It is double edge sword. Use it wisely.
2007-07-28 03:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by Soleil 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Dear Brother
This is a part of an Urdu Poetry written by King Bahadur Shah Zafar Marhoom.
Padi Apne aiboo'n pe jab Nazar
To nazar me'n Koi Bura na raha.
When you look at your own drawbacks and faults, then your eyes shall not see any one bad.
2007-07-28 08:42:40 · answer #2 · answered by mohammad a 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, you can't truly judge nor should you but we have to judge situations and the people in them to some extent every day. How can we proceed with our lives if we don't? It's easy to say don't judge but sometimes it is inevitable.
2007-07-28 02:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by Sassafrass 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because we are commanded to judge righteous judgments. We need to judge right from wrong in order to survive in this world. If we don't we will fall into deception.
2007-07-28 03:07:56 · answer #4 · answered by Avatar_defender_of_the_light 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a question of "why is it OK", who gets to say it's OK? It is simply something we humans do. Usually there are no real consequences to being judgmental but occasionally it's cause problems, despair, and hatred.
2007-07-28 02:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people dont value tolerance. You cant really change someones values if they dont want to change. The solution I use is to accept the things I cant change.
2007-07-28 02:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
so they can compare if they are better usually they think they are better that's why they judge to see if the other would be better than them so they try to bring up the flaw
2007-07-28 02:51:50 · answer #7 · answered by @NGEL B@BY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's human nature to size people up. Can't help it. If we didn't have this capacity, we'd all be suckers.
2007-07-28 02:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by Meow 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YOU... are Judging... JUST BY YOUR Question!
And.... YES.... we should All.... "JUDGE".... and DO SO....Each and in Every Situation!
OTHER... wise... we would All Just Be.... Bananas!
Thanks, RR
2007-07-28 02:54:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is in order to make quick decisions, we don't have ALL day!
2007-07-28 02:59:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋