He IMed me way back in February, & I didn't know him. But we got to know each other a little bit through IM. He told me he has Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder just like I do. So I thought we could share our experiences. & he used to text msg. me every day to see if I'm OK. In May, he asked me to get a webcam. I thought he just wanted to see who he was talking to. But it turned out, when I got one, he started to ask me to show him things I didn't feel comfortable with, like my breasts. & he DEMANDS that I show them to him & is very rude & impatient about it & desperate to see them, but I don't stoop that low. Since then, I've been ignoring his IM's. How can I tell him I don't wanna be bothered with him without him getting offended?
2007-07-28 01:29:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, you are way too kind. The guy is a jerk and pervert. He has behaved so poorly that you do not owe him any decency and respect. Tell him to take his perverted self elsewhere.
2007-07-28 06:31:05 · answer #1 · answered by Patti C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He just fishing for some filty things he wanted to do. Tell him straight that you don't want to communicate with him anymore and you were turn-off by the things he requested you to do on the web cam. Don't you worry if you offend him in process, besides he already offended you. Guys like this doesn't deserve a nice treatment otherwise he will just keep coming back, thinking that you were not just in the mood to the things he asking you to do. Good luck and have a nice day.
2007-07-28 09:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by Blue Angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say it I don't want to be bothered,you offended me with your actions I'm not that type of girl.
2007-07-28 08:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by misty m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont be bothered about offending him - he's a perv
Dont contact him again at all
Remove him from your contacts
Thats the wise thing to do
If he's like that with you, do you really think he doesn't do this with others too?
2007-07-28 08:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by Ask_Elvis 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You do not have to. Just get rid of your web cam, providing as you say, this is when things went bad. His obsession is his problem.
2007-07-28 08:35:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ron S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ehhh... he sounds like trash, why would you care about offending him? I would just put him on a block list and not say a word. He really doesnt sound worth it.
2007-07-28 08:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dont worry about ofending him. just try to ignor him.
2007-07-28 10:26:52 · answer #7 · answered by Grand pa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is a thirst crazy nut, keep quiet, he will leave.
2007-07-28 08:34:37 · answer #8 · answered by ya ali 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
block him
2007-07-28 08:42:56 · answer #9 · answered by Young Einstein 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Write it on your boobs, and show
2007-07-28 08:32:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋