I like this girl whos 16, and Im 18. I've hung out with her a lot and we have so much in common, and we can talk for hours. I can make her laugh, and she can make me laugh. I'm a shy quiet guy, and shes shy and quiet too. Shes the type of girl that I could see myself married to. However, i know that teenage relationships almost never work out, so I'm kind of afraid to ask her out cuz of that. Like, i have almost no dating experience and I was thinking that maybe I should date other girls, even though though I really like this girl. But, i'm also afraid that if I wait too long, she'll get a boyfriend. So what do you think? Should I date around first? Or should I just ask her out and hope it works?
2007-07-27 20:46:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Proceed with developing a solid friendship. Go to activities that you both enjoy (maybe a science museum or an art show?). A well-established friendship with a little extra warmth and affection is the most likely to lead to a long-term relationship. But at least you will have developed a great friendship. Usually being honest and straightforward is the best policy. You wouldn't want to be caught in the comedy of errors where boy likes girl, girl likes boy, out of fear boy dates other girl, first girl thinks he doesn't like her so she dates other boy. First boy and girl never do get together!
2007-07-27 20:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by treebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her, and yet you said she is the type of girl that you could see yourself married to, then what for going for another girl where you haven't give even a try?
Maybe you can ask for a date, a simple date.
Give a chance for her to know how you.
There are no definite answer for everything, even normally teenage relationship might not stable in normally case, but still, there are couples manage to pass through that challenging period and having a wonderful life together now, who knows?
So, go ahead. But don't act too fast, girl needs time.
Good Luck^^
2007-07-28 04:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by TuTu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi carl,
This is a common growing up phase. At this stage, you are definitely free to go out with other girls and find out more about them, their behviour, their likes/dislikes, what they have in common. You be surprise at how much you need to learn. Its better to have a big pool of friends to choose from. And you need to start now. Do not be too hung up on asking this girl out as she may turn you down...And are you going to be shattered if she turns you down and not telling you the reason?
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2007-07-28 03:57:14 · answer #3 · answered by raindeer_1999 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out... you never know it might work out, it might not... but thats the point of dating and relationships. you're suppose to be dating people you enjoy talking to and being with... and when you realize this person is not for you, move on. plus if you dont end up asking her out, you might always wonder what could have happened with both of you two
2007-07-28 03:51:42 · answer #4 · answered by booyah-baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out and be confident. Girls don't like a passive guy who doesn't take chances and voice his thoughts. You never know until you try. Girls also do not like indecisiveness.
2007-07-28 03:50:14 · answer #5 · answered by MrsKat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no man. yo uguys seem to have a connection. take a chance now and ask her out!
you can at the same time get lotsa dating experience with her. go for it man. good luck
2007-07-28 03:51:44 · answer #6 · answered by Concerned 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you waiting for?? never regret the things you do only the things you dont!!!
I know many childhood sweethearts that are still together 30 years later.
if its meant to be its meant to be. Goodluck x
2007-07-28 03:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by juliewylie29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her out. it sounds like she likes you too. so just ask her. the worst that will happen is she'll say no. she most likley wont end the friendship just because u told her how u feel.
2007-07-28 03:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by sagittarius_fall_out_boy_fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask here out and hope it works.
2007-07-28 03:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by bara hachi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..if you really love that girl..you should ask her out...n it is better for you to tell her what your feeling towards her..don't go dating with other girls..!!if that girl that you love is actually love you too...sure she will really dissappointed if she see you date with other girls..as a boy..you should BRAVE!!!
2007-07-28 03:56:51 · answer #10 · answered by erly_ana92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋