i am very shy i turn red very easily and i am nervous to have a guy talk to me. i am always mean to the guy that i like or just all guys and i am just scared that all guys are just using me and also i hang out with all these pretty girls and guys dont even notice me because of my friends please help
2007-07-27 19:58:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Learn to flirt, show him your best feminine side, flash your curves at him. Don't be standing with pretty girls when you do it, try and hang around ugly girls and you will look better as a result.
2007-07-27 20:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get involved often with an activity that you really like. Volunteering in it will be good too. For example, if you really liked sailing, join a club that helps children learn to sail. And so on. Just be yourself, even though that is a very famous clique. Don't force anything because what will happen if you start dating and then marry in the future, the guy will wonder where the part of you vanished which is the part you might fake and he fell in love with.
2007-07-28 03:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by Lando 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my chicken do you sound like me! Don't fear being shy is not all that bad a thing only reason I met my bf is because my face lite up like a christmas tree when he blew me a kiss. Try to calm down on guys tho there are nice ones out there you'll know if they're a jerk. And if it's your looks that bother you ask your friends to help you if your not sure about make-up and clothes. In fact talk to them about all this they'll know you better than anyone on here. Luck. ^-^
2007-07-28 03:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by KittyKat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were just like me when i met [now my boyfriend], Alan, and i had the same issue too: if i liked someone then id either hide it by either being mean or trying to play hard to get. For a while i would never talk to alan and i would always get nervous when he was around. So i got the courage to talk to him one day, over a text message! to me, it was easier to talk to him because usually i stutter or not look someone in the eye when i talk to a boy i like.
So, if you have a fone, text him! it makes life a lot easier!
if you dont have his number, ask a friend, connections are always good! =]
2007-07-28 03:11:48 · answer #4 · answered by miss cid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a deep breath and try to calm yourself down. it can be hard talking to guys, but you just have to take it in baby steps. start with a simple "Hey. whats up?" or something general like that, and (usually) the guy will take care of the rest. everyday try to say a little more, you'll be amazed at how soon your shyness disappears. good luck!!!!!
2007-07-28 03:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by hXc_rXck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can stop being mean to the guys first of all. And you should like talk to a guy that you like. You should complement him. And it will work better if you look good.
2007-07-28 03:02:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a guy you have to actually talk to a guy if you want him to notice you. I didnt even know my gf existed untill she walked up to me and we started talking. Or there is always dressing slutty, Snoogins!
2007-07-28 03:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an ounce of courage, go up. approach him like nothing mattered in the world and no one can judge you in your perfect world. Plus when a girl blushes at me, it is the biggest turn on to me unless she touches me you know where.
2007-07-28 03:03:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what someone is thinking of you. Guys are human beings, too! Treat them the way you'd want to be treated. Be yourself. That should garner enough attention to make you realize you worried way too much.
2007-07-28 03:05:48 · answer #9 · answered by Moemi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know that your eyes talk more than your words when it comes to love. Show him that shyee love you looking, he will melt.
2007-07-28 03:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by Saom S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋