as quickly as possible... this is so difficult!
2007-07-27 19:53:37 · 21 answers · asked by Sophie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am 28 and he is 43.
2007-07-27 20:08:56 · update #1
If your over 18 send me a pic.
2007-07-27 20:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by jasons086 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is important to learn as many lessons from this experience as possible to avoid developing a pattern of being hurt again and again, over and over. So study on where you made the first mistake, or the first wrong choice, etc, so that it won't happen again. Is there a "Grief chapter" to attend where you live? The thing that helped me the most was finding a small prayer group that was held in a home; some large churches sponsor them and some function independently. Those are the best. You learn about them thru word of mouth, just asking around. They are more intimate and will pray over you which brings healing to you each time you are prayed over. Some meet every other week or once a month and some even meet at places like Holiday Inn, etc.
2007-07-28 03:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Despite what some of those idiots say above, a fast way of getting over a person isn't sleeping around with other guys. You need to rebuild your self-confidence, stability and happiness, not attach it to another person who yet again might hurt you. The most efficient way is to put everything that reminds you about him in a box and keep it in your closet or somewhere out of sight if you don't have the heart to throw it away. Talk to friends and whine your heart out to them, you just need to get it out of your system. If you don't have many friends, or none that can listen to you right now, write poems and share them on one of those art community sites like deviantart, i found that helps as well. Remember some things that you've been putting off to do for a long time and do them now. Explore the world, grow as a person, consume yourself in learning something new that will make you feel good about yourself and feel like an achievement after.
I always say that moments of great sadness hold great creativity and motivation to improve yourself and your life, you just need to lift yourself up above all the bad emotions that are suffocating you and step forward. Think about what's healthy for you.
2007-07-28 03:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
okay first off i want to say im so sorry for you. when i first got out of a 1 yr. & 2 months relationship, It was so hard. We both agreed to split, yet i missed him after a while of being without him. For me, hangin out with other guys made me feel better. I kno it sounds shallow, but it opened my eyes to what else was out there. It really did help me. I ended up becoming great friends with one of my friend's boyfriend's friend & after a while we ended up dating. It's been almost 2 years. So good luck. & just kno that ur not alone. hope i was some help, && hang in there =]
2007-07-28 03:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by Becca! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people wait a while before they find someone again, but in some cases, finding someone new right away can be a good cure for a broken heart. Good luck with what you decide.
2007-07-28 02:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by The Brutal Truth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, i am so sorry to heart that. Everyday when you wake up think about something that you are thankful for and what you want to accomplish. Trust me , you don't need him. I mean you can still be friends , but that's it ! Don't let a loser get the best of you.
2007-07-28 02:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing you can do to heal ur broken heart , just try to live with your sadness and misery , register a class to learn more , or join in club , help people around you , work hard , visit relatives often , time will heal any wounds .
2007-07-28 02:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is the one thing and even that might not be enough some times. You just have to hang with some friends and do whatever is in your power to take you mind off of him.
2007-07-28 02:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your loss. It is a loss, because you have lost a relationship, and all the hopes you had for it. It's okay to be sad. I hope you'll find comfort with your most trusted friends and associates. Reading scripture helps me to be comforted, too.
2007-07-28 03:01:11 · answer #9 · answered by drshorty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do the things you love to do!
with your friends or with your family!
don't think about it too much.
you didn't do anything wrong!
HE broke your heart..he doesn't deserve you..
you'll find someone SOOOOOO much better than him!
i promise.
2007-07-28 02:58:50 · answer #10 · answered by -me- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋