before i met my fiance i had relationship to a married man and until now i still have relationship to this married man, my fiance doesn't know that. the married man working with me in the same company, my fiance working and living in other country but we will get married next four months. this crazy situation, i don't know what to do. they love me both and i love them both. but i don't know why i prefer to stay with the married man than a single man.
2007-07-27 19:31:25 · 10 answers · asked by kristal m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-07-27 19:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by SLOMO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds more like you're not getting enough time spent with your fiance. Maybe you should postpone. The fact that you work with the married guy is really bad, because if you break that off, you still have to deal with the fact of seeing that person everyday. You might just be better off leaving the fiance or making some big changes like a career change.
2007-07-27 19:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by The Brutal Truth 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you are a liar and a cheat and you are attracted to the same. Do your fiance a favor and don't marry him. If you love him at all you won't want him to be with someone like yourself, you would want him to be with someone who loves and respects him. Thats not you.
As far as your married b/f goes, you do know he's completely lying about his wife. They always are. And hon, you are not a "mistress", you are just some woman he's using.
2007-07-27 19:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
so, you are cheating on your fiance with a cheater, or you are cheating on the cheater with your fiance?
you need to decide, doyou want to be the one that's helping a man be unfaithful to a woman he loves, or do you want to be with someone who loves you?
and, no matter what happens, if you loved either of them, you'd have already told them what was going on. if you really cared about your fiance, you would have explained this to him, and then you might not be in this situation.
you've been dishonest, and now you are stuck, you'll not only have to choose, but be totally honest with both of them as well.
2007-07-27 19:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by Mary Liz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop lying to yourself and be with the man you really love. It sounds like you and the married man are just using each other. If you don't care about your boyfriend, let him go and move on with his life.
2007-07-27 19:36:09 · answer #5 · answered by Pocahontas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have your cake and you are eating it at the same time.
a very difficult position.
as a mistress, the john is supporting you in a number of ways, i suppose you keep your job by being productive.
ask you mom what to do, she will give you the best advice.
don't be bashful about asking your mom. back in the day every woman suffered all kind of indignities. need i say more?
2007-07-27 19:44:09 · answer #6 · answered by ramni222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should have your own life, make your own family with this single man. you should not break a family up by going with a married man. married man aren't always willing to give up his wife for a secret lover.good luck.
2007-07-27 19:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by kimmy001 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
drop the married man. he doesn't love you, no matter what he says. go with the fiance.
and being sexually involved with a co-worker could cost you your job. it is frequently against corporate policy.
2007-07-27 19:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by freespirit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you tell your fiance. There willl be no need to make a decision. He will make it for you.
2007-07-27 19:35:40 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he turns you on more.
I don't think you are ready to be married!
2007-07-27 19:35:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋