i have known a guy online for about 41/2 years now .i haven't met him personally yet he lives in a different country . and he is very sweet and very loving ,i mean we love each other very much .the thing is i am married and i can't really leave right now for personal reasons . the guy i am dating say's he loves me but a lot of times i doubt his love and i know i shouldn't i can't talk to him on a phone i can't physically talk for medical reasons but we talk online all the time on a messenger he is with me a lot . and times he doesn't come when i think he will like if he is a hour or more late i get irrate and i am scared he has someone else but he said he doesn't he loves me .he say's he has been with me for almost 5 years .we talk and do things as if we were together .it is nice what we have i love it in fact i don't want it to ever end . do any of you think it could last much longer just having what we have online? or do you think he will want more eventually and i could lose him?
2007-07-27 19:23:58 · 12 answers · asked by debbie d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-07-27 19:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it could last much longer! I've known this guy for about 4 1/2 years now too. At first it was just friendship, but then it turned into something so much more, love! Just recently he said he loved me and I know he means it. I can just feel it in my heart he means it. I'm 100% in love with him too. We both want to meet but we decided to wait till we're both in college to make things easier since he lives 500 miles away. We're not dating or anything but we love each other dearly. I say be prepared if he leaves you but hope for the best!
2007-07-28 02:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is only ever going to be your online friend. The one thing that is lacking in this relationship is seeing each other in person. You will learn more about this person in 1 minute of meeting them than over 41/2 years online. I am not saying dump him as friend but if you need to resolve your problems in your marriage first. If you do decide to leave your husband you are better of meeting people who live in the same city as you.
2007-07-28 02:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is that song called, "Some good things never last" and unfortunately, it's always true. For one, you are married, eventually it'll break your heart, second, you can't get a hold of him, he's always out, you just talk online meaning you have no assurance, for all you know he has a lot of diff. girlfriends in that almost 5 years of knowing him. ALways reality check, in real life there is 'no' assurance, act on it now even if it means a little heartache, don't regret it later (more problems, miserable). Stay married, it pays to be loyal, choose to be happy & be good! God Bless you... I really mean it!
2007-07-28 02:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by manic monday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at this situation properly! You are MARRIED and he is in another country.
You say, you talk and "do things" like you would if you were together. PUHLEASE!
Do you seriously think that this guy has been single and only emotionally available to you for the last 5 years?
You're dreaming if you think this is going to work. Either work on your marriage or leave. And forget your fantasy guy on the net, cos that is all he is. Grow a brain.
2007-07-28 02:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by Barkditch 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he will want more in the future, so you need tostart making choices and see who you really love and go from there. there is no say on when he may want to move the relationship further, but if he truley loves you like you say he does, then he will sometime in the future want more than an internet relationship.=)
2007-07-28 02:28:18 · answer #6 · answered by xx80schickxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
online relationships suck.
he is problably a 79 year old 400 pound chinese sumo wrestler who owns an opium house.
2007-07-28 02:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i dont think it will work i mean alot of times long distant realtionships dont work and that is when the people have meet and u dont really now what he is like because u have never meet him in real life
2007-07-28 02:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by hotstuff98022 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be truthful it can never work out for you both.
2007-07-28 02:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it dont sound very good from what i read in my honest opion?
2007-07-28 02:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋