My bf and I are 17 and have been together for 2 years. We broke up in april but it was mostly cuz of his parents but anyways we are getting back together. He told me he doesn't want to have sex for awhile cuz he doesn't want our relationship to become all about sex. He is at a leadership camp right now but when he comes back Im gonna tell him that I think we should just concentrate on getting our relationship back where it needs to be and just go out together and with our friends and then when can do sexual stuff again. Does this sound like a good idea. My bf and I are on the same page just wondering if anyone else has done this and if it helped your relationsip?
2007-07-27 19:21:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Of course it's a good idea and more so since you both agree!! Props on the communication.... that will be the key in making your relationship last!
Find your common intrests and go full steam ahead! You are young and already on the right track... KUDOS!
2007-07-27 19:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by Kishauna_P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You had BETTER think about this."I LOVE YOU" sex babies and shacking up are NOT a commitment."I DO" is a commitment.If you get pregnant and he goes to leadership training and you get dumped then what?
If his parents could split you up then other things can also, especially the fear of daddy hood.Sex will NOT make him love you or seal the deal.He can do you tonight and another girl before the sun comes up as far as that goes.Sex is NOT 99% of a relationship and if it is, it wont last long.
2007-07-28 03:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. Remember always that sooner or later sex will not be an option. life has a funny way of throwing you curve balls. While sex is a good part of a strong healthy adult relationship a good friend ship is still the foundation. And a strong foundation is what will get you through to your golden years together.
2007-07-28 08:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by blue_eyed_brat78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is a great Idea. Most teens confuse relationships with sex and never really get to know what the other person is all about. This way you get to work on you friendship and once you are sexually active, it should in theory but better than ever.
2007-07-27 20:29:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
17?Date and have fun now as much as you can. Don't rush the serious stuff now. Take care of #1 first-you. All the bfs will fall in to place later. Sex and kids...the two always go together. Take your time and enjoy You now!!!
2007-07-27 21:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by 1+triplets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want it to be a strong relationship, it would be the best idea, get to really know one another outside of sex. From what I am reading though you have already crossed the line in the past, this will make the concept more difficult. good luck to you both.
2007-07-27 19:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by julvrug 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 03:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is a great idea it is best to star our slow and really get to know each other again before getting into a serious relationship. This will really help to two of you grow together. Good luck.
2007-07-27 19:29:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a great idea. If you two decide to just hang out
without any sexual stuff then that will prove that you two
do love eachother and that you guys are not together
for sexual stuff. Go for it for a few months (or years :p)
and find out if you two are together for love or sex.
2007-07-27 19:27:14 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Sweet Me♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
communication is the key to a good relationship and what you are doing is wonderful. sex is only part of a relationship and shouldnt be the whole basis for a relationship props to you for knowing what you want in a relationship and life
2007-07-27 20:48:31 · answer #10 · answered by marianne l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋