a guy in my life has nevr said me that he loves me , but has said me that he likes me!! when i asked him do u love me he said i dont want to hurt u .. what does he mean by that ?? he has kissed n smooched me !! waht does he expect from ME??
2007-07-27 19:20:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please keep urself away from him. don't trust him.
2007-07-27 19:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by saralegi1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this...but the guy does not love you....he just wants fun....it'll be better off if he quits kissing you because he's just leading you on. Only reason why im saying this is because ive personally gone through this...and i wouldnt want you to get hurt. So my side of the advice is that surely you can be friends with him....maybe even best friends...but maybe not more than that. And wen you asked him that "do you love me?" and he said "I dont want to hurt you." it was a simple way of rejecting you. I know this might not sound well at all but someone also gave me the same advice and i took that advice, tried to understand what that person was saying to me and moved on with life. Its hard to deal with this kind of stuff. Hope you take my advice and dont feel bad about what I said. Just trying to help you out here dear. take carezz. Byee
2007-07-27 19:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by xoangelxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry i m being honest inspite of knowing that it is going to hurt you. but i dont want you to have wrong ideas about this guy. Sorry dear, but he DOESN"T love you. If he did, he wouldn't have touched you without asking you whether you loved him. And would have said, " All this, only after you agree". I am not saying he is trying to use you or something....... but i think he is thinking that he can do all this with you and you wont complain. First of all, make him clear to him, if he doesn't love you then why of this kissing and smooching stuff. or is that he want something else from u. i hope you got what i mean. Ask him straight on his face, but dont do it in public. Ask him to meet you in privacy and then ask him this. After all, you are a nice girl with self respect and you deserve to know clearly his intentions. And, give your love and make love only to the person who deserves it. so you never ever have to regret your decision in ur entire life.
2007-07-27 23:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by goddess_of_fame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is not saying htat he loves you and is not a shy kind of person, i htink you need to tread carefully coz he might just be wantinbg to take advantage of your feelings. Dont let him do that. But if you know htat he is a shy kind of person, first be goodfriends with him so that he can tell you what he feels for you but in hte mean time ensure that you do not end up sleeping with him. It could also lead him to think that you are a girl of loose character. Wait and be friends wiht him first and then with time you will know what he feels for you. But if he is not hte shy kinds then talk to him straight and if he still does not say anything to you about his feelings, stay away from him. Take care
2007-07-27 19:37:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just wanna have fun with u. if so be careful. talk to him about this ask him if he does'nt love u then why did he kiss u. i think he is using u. do one thing make him jealous by being & talking with someother guy in front of him. i am sure he will react on it. try too be closer to that other guy in front of him. he will get too jealous if he loves u. try this. all the best. don't worry! just relax. hope u have a bright future.
2007-07-27 19:35:35 · answer #5 · answered by Teddy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What he means by he doesn't want to hurt you. It means the truth hurts so he doesn't want to hurt you be telling you the truth. He doesn't love you" Maybe he just Likes you for now..
Maybe you should try to take things slow for now.
2007-07-27 19:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by Jayy♥(: 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you asked him "did he love you ?" he said he didn't want to hurt you by SAYING NO
i think thats what he meant,
because if he loved you he would say he loved you!!
DITCH HIM if he dont care for you!!
you are wasting your time & years on him
2007-07-27 19:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doing all those activities with u as u said, and he cant say atleast once that he loves u --- that means U MUST be away from him . ... clearly he is simply enjoying and wants something else .....
2007-07-28 19:32:21 · answer #8 · answered by PM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that he too loves you but he has some serious constraints. If he is honest, sincere & committed you must discuss the matter...
Take Care...
2007-07-27 20:26:04 · answer #9 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not for u. he does not love u. maybe he just wants a physical relationship
2007-07-27 19:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by shah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
according to me he only wants to juice u up and nothing else
2007-07-28 22:11:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋