y do guys act so retarted.
i mean i talked to my bf about this thats affecting us than i no i shouldn't snoop around in his email so don't tell me y i did. but anyways a girl emailed him and he respond. she said that they should hang out more often and he said that they should grab more ppl and go camping again. what pissed me of is the fact when i was crying to him telling him we should spend more time 2gether and less with his frds ( they hang literally 24/7) and saying that we don't talk and its like i don't know u anymore. he didn't feel he need to mention that he talked to her, i mean she txt him and calls don't know if a lot cause i dont hang with him enough. but the point is i always tell him that we should talk more doesn't matter if its something stupid like i woke up at 11. not to check in on him more to know whats up since i don't talk to him its like i don't know what he was doing. Even if he said he went and hung out with his frd and watched a movie. TIRED OF IT ALL....
2007-07-27 15:48:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't want to cry anymore and its like he does't care he says that he does and he gets angry when i tell him that i think he doesn't care...... but i've tried everything im the one who's been fighting and im physically tired.....
y doesn't he care
we've been going out for 2 yrs now and its like he doesn't care
how does he not care after so long and im his first so its not something that a guy who only had me as his gf act.
guys n girls points of view
plz
2007-07-27 15:51:06 · update #1
Guys are guys. If you cannot accept us the way we are than do without. But in either case, quit your bitchin.
2007-07-27 15:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by John 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry sweetie but it just seems like you guys are moving in two different directions. You've brought it up to him, and that is a hard and a huge step to make, but that's not working. You need to take it that step further. If your not spending time together then maybe you should just stop. It sounds like you would be better off finding someone who can appreciate and respect you. Is it really worth all the hurt and the worrying? You deserve better. Either he'll realize how he has been acting and see he is not appreciating you or you will both move on. You deserve to be happy and he doesn't seem to be a positive person to have in your life right now.
2007-07-27 22:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by rigrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready to move on? Life is to short to be with someone who doesn't make you happy. The truth is when we find ourselves looking in e-mail , through wallets and things like that it is already over. If you can't trust someone it is not good to keep trying to hang on to someone who will never make you happy. Have a real good cry, wash your face and move on to greener pastures. You will find someone else who can give you what you need.
2007-07-27 22:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by phylobri 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really don't need guys! They're ridiculous and you're better off without them until they're mature ! Just talk to him and maybe write out a pros and cons list as dumb as that sounds .. if you have more pros, stay with him and talk to him because communication is really important .. if there's more pros i think it's best to break up): good luck
2007-07-27 22:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by fashionista 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more time you waiste on him, the more time you lose in finding someone better.
thats it thats all.
2007-07-27 22:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by SolarSoul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like it then why don't you leave him ??? you obviously do like the way he treats you or you would leave him to find someone better then that...
2007-07-27 22:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's past time for you to move on...
2007-07-27 22:52:34 · answer #7 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋