the ex was not willing to commit to me as much as i did for the past 4 yrs, he never cheated when we were together, but i felt as he did not put enough effort. thats why i left him.
now we meet up for lunch here and there. should i try again or change my # and never talk to him again?
2007-07-27 15:34:08 · 17 answers · asked by carrie_polska 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get prepared to lose them all as soon as they'll find out that you are cheating them,like what would have happened when you found out that your boyfriend was playing you a game.
2007-07-27 15:47:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your meeting up is innocent, why should you change your number and forbid his calls? BUT... if you secretly are a bit attracted to your ex... then try and cut off this, because it will end in cheating on your bf of a year. exs can be exciting and the thrill of possibly hooking back up with something that didn't work out is so tempting, but don't fall into that trap. It will only ruin your relationship with your bf, and your ex will either catch on and make the affair public, or go for the ride and make you feel used when you come to terms with your actions.
2007-07-27 22:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never talk to him again! What are you thinking? You have a boyfriend because the old one would not commit. Now you are willing to throw that away for your ex?
2007-07-27 22:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by Realgroovy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously there is still something there or else you still wouldn't be seeing your ex. Maybe it's a friendship that is developing between you both. Besides, if you are in love with your current bf, nothing will change that; UNLESS you have a desire to get back with your ex and that's why you are struggling.
2007-07-27 22:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by eliene875 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why if you have a great b/f are you bothering w/someone from your past?! You weren't satisfied w/him before, now you have someone new. Why take the chance of loosing something good for someone who didn't work out before. I wouldn't take the chance myself. If you're happy & satisfied w/who you're w/now, let go of the past & continue on w/someone you're happy with. I don't think you'd be happy if your present b/f were meeting w/his ex! I'd say to put the past in the past & go forward.
2007-07-27 22:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a great boyfriend of a year...let me ask this...would you want your great boyfriend of a year secretly meeting with his ex?
If not...then what are you thinking?????
In dating...do what you would want your date to do to you. Faithful? Loyal? Trustworthy? Honesty?
Drop the ex, or be honest with the new one and allow him to move on his way.
You've can't have it both ways, or the end result will be that you end up with nothing. Neither one. Because they can't trust you.
2007-07-27 22:44:09 · answer #6 · answered by cadvadvocate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be honest with your current boyfriend first of all. Getting hurt is hard to deal with, but knowing you hurt someone else badly is much worse! If you want to go forward, tell your current boyfriend, and then take your chances with the ex. It is never okay to string someone along!!
2007-07-27 22:40:22 · answer #7 · answered by Lora 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to cut connections unless your current bf has a problem with it- or unless you're being affectionate with this guy. BUT...if you still have feelings with him...you definitely need to cut ties. Always remember...if you're doing something with another person that your current guy can't know about...you probably shouldn't be doing it. Have integrity, it makes you trustworthy...loyalty is noble.
2007-07-27 22:40:27 · answer #8 · answered by What Lil' Girls R Made Of... 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should change your number and get over it if you like the dude your with. The ex is just going to screw your relationship.
2007-07-27 22:37:03 · answer #9 · answered by Warren G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have agood BF, but willing to pitch that for a guy who couldn't /wouldn't make up his mind? Do you really need an answer...
Guys don't change...
2007-07-27 22:40:12 · answer #10 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋