How come girls are expected to stay virgins until marriage but not guys?!?

Question

It's not fair. Guys want to marry virgins, but they've already had sex with a ton of girls. :-(

Answer 1

Blame it on double standards, just the same if you have a brother, he might get to stay out later than you, and gets to do more things than you. Its all the same.

Answer 2

I don't think all people feel this way. I know where I'm from most people don't expect girls to be virgins when they marry, maybe you should explore the world a little more and you'll find a lot more open minded people. I think a lot of people are realistic, if a girl believes she should be a virgin when she gets married, then she should do it because she believes in that, not because the culture she lives in believes the girl should be a virgin at marriage. A lot of people are narrow minded, but a lot of people are open minded too, just get out and meet other guys and I think you'll find that not all guys are expect girls to be virgins until marriage.

Answer 3

A young man such as yourself needs to experience life for many years before marriage is even thought about. The maturity of men and women differs by 10 years,she's ready for marriage and you're just horny or wanting to explore sexual endeavors. There is nothing wrong with that, it's life.Sow your oats! But, do not ruin her while doing so. Purity and morals in young women is hard to find these days! If she give you the greatest gift she has to offer a man and you don't love her or even know what true love is(and how could you at your age) she will hate herself and become bitter toward men. Be a real friend to her and let her know that you are not for her at this time in your life but that you care enough to respect her wishes, you guys can be pals and one day who knows.. Break it off easy...

Answer 4

there some few guy stay virgins until married it s by there religion
and some don't want wait they have sex with girls that want
to be with ,but its the guys standards have sex before marriage
makes them more macho ,and for girls some stay virgins
until marriage that they can be pure at least they know that
the person she with its her first man
and there some don't care

Answer 5

I do agree with you when you say it isn't fair. However I do feel that it has something to do with the traditional standards and beliefs that the world has in regards to male and female expectation. Females are expected to stay "pure" or "untouched" in a sense until they are indeed married, that way they are belonging to only one man in their lives which is their husbands. However, in traditional belief and standard men aren't looked at in that such manner. So basically it begins to be a preferred or expected way of life. It's not fair for us women who want a man all to ourselves in that situation, but it turns out well for the men.

Answer 6

It's a left over convention from back when women were considered property instead of people. Don't buy it. On the other hand, don't have sex unless you truly want too. Being picky is a good thing, it keeps away the creeps.

Answer 7

Guy get horny all the times and girls not like that. The gurls know that if she lose it with someone she love and going to be with her til death than she don't have nothing to worry about

Answer 8

everyone is expected to stay virgins until marriage, some guys are just hoes and feel like they need to 'show there virgin wife a good time' even though she wont even have anyone else to compare it too!

Answer 9

It's a double standard just like a woman who sleeps with men for money is called a prostitute but yet if a man does it then he's a gigolo. Or a woman who sleeps with other men is called a s.l.u.t. but if a man does that same thing then he's called a stud. You have to remember its a man's world out there, Ginger. Aloha.

Answer 10

I agree with your saying. It is unfair that the world has a double standard when it comes to this topic.