Whats the best way to get over bein scared of men?

Answer 1

1) realize that they're often as afraid of you as you are of them. maybe more. i am often nervous around girls i like. usually, in fact. we worry about rejection all the time.

2) realize that if a guy rejects you, it isn't the end of the world. do you have any idea how many women have rejected me? you're life doesn't end, and sometimes you succeed. so don't be afraid of them, or at least find a way to conquer your fear. the best way is often to get rejected a few times and then figure out that it doesn't really matter and that you just move on.

good luck!

Answer 2

I used to ask this same question all the time but about women. I got over it when I was capable of truly accepting the reality that the opposite sex is just as worried and scared and happy as we are. The fear comes from the apprehension of sex- to be blunt, and the fear that you will mess it up if you say or do the wrong thing. The great part about being a female is that when it comes to us men you can do almost NOTHING to make us not want to have sex with you. Once you realize that is what's going on you can look at the trust issue between the two of you and decide where you want it to be before you make decisions in the relationship.

Answer 3

Interesting question.
Start by looking at pictures of men until you can do this without getting scared.
Then, watch the sports channel and observe men talking about sports.
Then, go with your female friends out in public and be in the vicinity of real-live men.
Next, get your female friends together and have one of them bring along a man whom she feels is pretty harmless.
As a group, all of you can watch tv or go have lunch somewhere.
Every once in a while, ask the man a question like: "What do you do for a living?"
Soon you'll be comfortable around other men too.

Seriously, also find a good older female counselor to talk with about this. Make sure she is at least 40 years old.

Answer 4

Well, first figure out why you're afraid of men. What experience made you that way or what someone said or whatever it was, seriously think and figure out why you're that way. Once you know what that is, come to terms with it and realize that you need to move and not be afraid of men. Do what you need to do to get over it. Then, you need be friends with a guy or two. Preferably more masculine gay guys. This way you can flirt and everything, but they're not going to try and go out with you or get in your pants. Then you need to meet some straight ones that you can be friends with. You can still use the flirting and what not, but this way you can possibly date them or just sleep with them.. I would recomend sleeping with them first. This way you can get physically comfortable, then you should be ready for a relationship. It will take sometime but hopefully everything will work out for you.

best of luck :]

Answer 5

Why are you afraid of men in the first place? Maybe if you know why you are afraid of men then you need to overcome that first. Otherwise I think everyone gets nervous around the opposite sex at first but you build confidence over time. Maybe you need to work on that.

Answer 6

First: taser them all up the you-know-what if they get too close to you. (that will render them completely helpless and you will be in charge):

2. After disabling them, if one of them moves, kick him in the b**** with your steel toed boot.

3. Forget about 1 and 2. . . . I have a better one that won't get you arrested . . . . . . take a wet noodle and stuff it in every ear of every man who comes near you. They will think you're crazy and stay away from you.

Wait! I have a better idea! Sit in your lawn chair, on your front lawn, and clean your shotgun. That will help men to stop thinking what you think they're thinking. You get my drift? You don't? K. . . . they'll think you're crazy and stay away from you.

Here's another idea: every time you see a man who causes you to feel intimidated, imagine yourself, (or your bodyguard) shoving a hand grenade up his a** and then imagine his head blowing off! WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE THIS IS FUN!

Ok. . .wait. . . I just thought of one more. . .. if you're in the grocery store or the mall, and a man gets too close to you, take your finger and point right at him and yell: :*BANG*
Keep yelling *BANG* until he retreats. He will think you're crazy and stay away from you.

Oh yes. . . . you're afraid of men because you know that they are all carrying a concealed weapon that hangs between their legs.

Thank you for that question. I just had the best ole time with my imagination. LOVE when that happens.

Ask more questions! I love your questions, Edna!

Answer 7

Go and get some couseling... Get to the root of the problem. (why you are afraid or scared of men) Good luck and God bless****

Answer 8

Hang around the men in your family.

Answer 9

Being around men.

Answer 10

if it a real fear because of something like abuse in the past then you have to see a therapist or some type of program. if it is unnatural fear like fear of chest hair then just think of what you would do if you werent afraid and just do it! good luck! :)