ok, well im shy, but a lot of boys ask me out, or want my number!!
I dont feel comfortable saying yes, because i dont know what to expect out of the relationship! being a teenager im not comfortable having sex! How do I overcome my timidness by opening up while setting my ground rule (NO SEX!!)
2007-07-27 15:04:50 · 7 answers · asked by Sarah L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take risks!
2007-07-27 15:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always when you think that you are standing,make sure that you are strong and cannot be pushed easily.Saying yes to someone is to allow temptations,and once you allow temptations means that you allow competition,and in competition there is no way you'll win all the time,there are times where your opponents get over.This is the time when what you didn't expect becomes the outcome.Watch out,stand where you are,and reach your goal.
2007-07-27 22:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all: Congrats on your decision. I hope you stay firm in your beliefs. Try saying something like, "I'd be happy to go out with you, but I don't want you to get the wrong idea. I'm abstaining from sex until marriage." Only if you actually think he's someone you'd consider going out with, of course.
P.S. don't be surprised if some of the guys retract their invitation, but you don't want someone who won't respect your beliefs anyway.
2007-07-27 22:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by go2bermuda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with what you believe in, and do not compromise yourself until Mr. Right come along. There will be many Mr. Rightnows... but trust your heart to see you through them. Listen to that voice in side of you that warns you. And remember, a boy will say anything if he thinks it will get him a piece of your tail. A man will prove anything he says to get that same piece. Good luck.
2007-07-27 22:09:56 · answer #4 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them know when they ask you out and usually you will scare away the majority of the guys that only want sex. if you date one, make sure that you never put yourself in a situation where his or your feelings can overcome you beliefs. date in groups and always remind him of your committment to yourself. believe or not guys want a girl like you only later in life when they are mature and want a good girl. stick to your beliefs and if you get tired of saying no get a stamper made. good luck! :)
2007-07-27 22:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by bilkmilk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just give then a fake number....that always works...and you are being nice at the same time...
2007-07-27 22:07:04 · answer #6 · answered by zspider1011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no sex ? then no life !!!!!!!!!
2007-07-27 22:08:13 · answer #7 · answered by more m 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋