You don't get insanely jealous if he has a meal at a restaurant once in a while, so why be so petty about a little sex away from home?
2007-07-27 15:02:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I am falling in love with you quickly black queen. Keep speaking dirty to me... it's a language I understand!
There is far too much emphasis on monogamy. I have a vision. It's a world where polygamy is acceptable. ( ok.. so I am a little old fashioned!) We are a sharing and caring culture where people don't belong to other people, we share our food, our shelter, our water, our clean unpolluted low carbon emission air and our love. I've heard this before of course... Bob Dylan is to blame.
Sex away from home? Apparently the statistics are that 85% of men have a little sex away fomr home when they go abroad. Get used to it.
2007-07-27 15:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by Icy Gazpacho 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You've got to be joking. But in case you are not...
For one thing, sex is an opportunity for a strong emotional connection. A husband and wife should not have that kind of connection with anyone else. it's a little thing called commitment.
For another thing, I don't want to run the risk of catching some nasty disease from some chick that can't keep her legs closed.
And another, I don't need a bunch of kids running around that my husband fathered but can't afford to pay support to.
There's nothing "petty" about it.
2007-07-27 22:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cute, I cant tell that either one, you have never been cheated on. Or two, you have never actually loved someone.
It's not about jealously, it's about love and trust. The idea of my husband sleeping with another woman is repugant and betraying. It's not just eating another meal, it's actually physcially being and being inside another woman. Especially if he didn't tell me and came home and made love to me afterwards.
It definitely does her harm - emotionally, mentally, spiritually and sometimes even physically if he drags home an STD/other disease with him. Ever think about that?
2007-07-27 22:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by noncrazed 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't do her any harm? it causes plenty of emotional harm. it is in the female DNA to want ONE trustworthy and loyal partner. this is one of the things that has helped our species survive and thrive. seeing the man you're devoted to give himself to another woman can be extremely painful. women are jealous and want their men to only have eyes for them.
not to mention the possibility of STDs and such. how awful it would be to get an STD from your very own husband just because he wanted a little temporary pleasure.
sex away from home is NOTHING like eating away from home....get a clue!
2007-07-27 22:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by KellyKapowski 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ha! Ha! Tell that to my wife. Not that I'm interested in having sex with another woman.
But I did make a vow to her, her parents, God, the church to which I belong, and to myself. That was called a wedding.
Sex for me is much more than something physical. And THAT can only be accomplished with my wife. Sorry, I don't want another woman in the equation.
2007-07-27 22:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by flandargo 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
1) she is not a meal she is a human being
2) you put your momentary pleasure above her,her needs and your relationships. 3) you just compared an intimate part of a relationship to a meal. You have shown how little importance she is to you and you have for others. Are those enough reasons?
2007-07-27 22:12:26 · answer #6 · answered by David F 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Probably because those women who go after married men usually carry some funky diseases (cause they're screwing everything else as well). And what's hilarious is how they try to justify it by covering up the fact they can't get a man all on their own... they have to get someone elses. lol
2007-07-27 22:17:17 · answer #7 · answered by River 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah. We need more kids without dads. Is this why the black community is in such a disaster as far as intact family's are concerned? I suppose if you are already HIV positive you have nothing to lose, as far health concern goes. But this behavior will lead you and your so called lovers into hell.
2007-07-27 22:16:44 · answer #8 · answered by copperhead89 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm so glad that you call contacting a sexually transmitted disease petty. I'm even more glad that you think putting an unborn baby's life in danger petty. My husband cheated on me, and gave me a sexual transmitted disease that could have cost our daughter her life, as well as mine. It still could cost me mine actually. "It doesn't do her any harm" LADY! YOU NEED TO GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT BEFORE YOU TALK!!!!
2007-07-27 22:49:42 · answer #9 · answered by Sommer S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get married, you generally make a promise not to have extramarital sex. Breaking promises is wrong.
2007-07-27 22:08:53 · answer #10 · answered by au_catboy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋