I am a christian and I sometimes feel like there should be no reason why I live on this planet. Like I know why I'm here, it's just I feel like that God puts me through so much anger I feel like if I just killed myself and went to heaven with him everything would be easier. But I know if I did it would be a slap in the face to him because Jesus Christ sacraficed his life for us to be here. But still, wouldn't God be happy if I was away from trouble and with him anyways?
I don't know. Help me
2007-07-27 14:06:08 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Look not long time ago I had a friend who killed herself and I got sad specially when I saw her family.I couldn't possibly forgive myself if I made my family or my friends who love so much having to the deal with my loss for there rest of there lives,and I think it wouldn't be fair for you to this them. You should prove to God that you're willing to take life for granted with all the joy no matter what.Here's a website that can help anytime you're in doubt
http://www.christiananswers.net/q-dml/dml-y038.html
2007-07-27 15:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by Fresh Prince of Brazil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't elaborate on the source of your anger but I believe the anger would be your response to what you're experiencing - not what He is putting you through. Seek help for these anger issues, if you need to, but know that He has a plan for your life. Since you are a Christian you wish to live in the center of His will and this path of sanctification is not always the easiest. We shouldn't be too concerned about comfort at this juncture.
You'll have plenty of time to be with Him (eternity, matter of fact) when He calls you home. Time, here, is very short. We must make the best use of it.
The night is far spent, the day is at hand: let us therefore cast off the works of darkness, and let us put on the armour of light.
Romans 13:12
Hang in there and don't give up.
Therefore, my beloved brethren, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that your labor is not in vain in the Lord.
1Corinthians 15:58
Always be full of joy in the Lord. I say it again-rejoice! 5 Let everyone see that you are considerate in all you do. Remember, the Lord is coming soon.
6 Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. 7 If you do this, you will experience God's peace, which is far more wonderful than the human mind can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.
Philippians 4:4-7 (NLT)
I'll pray for you. God bless.
2007-07-27 14:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by NickofTyme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't. God sometimes tests our faith, but he is there all the time. God would be disapointed and sad if you ended you life. Everyone has a pourpose, just some choose not to fulfil it. God will take you when the time is right. Relax, and enjoy life. We may not know why we are here, but we have so much in life we should be thankful for!!! So just love every minute of life.
P.S. Think about all the people that will feel the pain when you're gone! Mom, Dad, siblings, friends, teachers, everyone
2007-07-27 14:50:21 · answer #3 · answered by Kiearah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, please don't talk like that...I know things feel bad in your life right now, but suicide is NOT the answer here...I have felt the same way at times as I know other people here have...You may be dealing with depression here...and all this is a chemical imbalance and that can be fixed...did You ever hear the saying...
"God, never gives You more than You
can handle"...I have thought about that saying alot in my life...because he sure has piled it on me...your not alone...
NO, God would NOT want you to do this...and neither do I...God wants you to live your life to the fullest...and NOT end it...
That is the easy way out...living life for God
is hard but this is what he wants for us...
please email me if you want...and we can talk...and if you are someone that I know...please write to ME anyhow...I see you have a new account as of today, that's why I am wondering...please don't be afraid.
GOD Bless YOU...I do care about you...
as do alot of others here...
2007-07-27 14:28:17 · answer #4 · answered by Kerilyn 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All people, especially teens, go through a period where they feel as if there life has no meaning. If your a teen, it might be hormonal. But i advise going to either a parent or friend and talking about your feelings. Or a pastor, or any other religious leader depending on your branch in Christianity.
Sweetie, God loves you. He would never ask you to kill yourself, little own be happy. Hang in there, and pray for strength. Everyone is searching for their purpose on earth, so don't feel suicidal that you haven't found it yet. I'm sure people love you, and would be horribly sad if you die; so just hang on. Good luck, hun.
2007-07-27 14:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by Momo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God had decided that you were worth having ALIVE on this earth. Deciding that you know better then God about when you should die is indeed a slap in the face. God wants you here, right now, to experience life and fellowship with others. God will warmly accept you into heaven when HE decides it is time. So don't try to rationalize something that throws God's gift to you right into His face.
2007-07-27 14:14:29 · answer #6 · answered by Got Questions? I've Got Answ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just do it and find out!
After all if heaven is such a great place and your life is so darn lousy then it sounds like you have nothing much to loose but your life here with us mortals.
On the other hand, maybe God won't want you whinging in his ear about what a lousy deal you got from him and send you to the "other neighbourhood".
Then you will really have something to complain about.
If you think everyone else has lives that are all full of happiness and goodtimes. You are naive or stupid.
We all have the sh*t hit the fan once in a while ,sometimes it seems like too often .
Deal with it. If you cant ,get help.
From my life experience I know that 99.9% of the time suicide or attempted suicide is just a cry for attention that went too far.Leaving others to deal with the consequences .
2007-07-27 14:26:57 · answer #7 · answered by sistablu...Maat 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I understand exactly how you feel!!
Sometimes times are hard, and I felt the same way..
If you were born there is indeed a reason for your living.
You could impact one persons life, who might become the the next billy sunday, or something like that.
And when you've done your job, then it'll be time for you to go home.
I think God would be upset because you weren't finished, and because he wasn't ready for you to go home.
If you feel depressed, read the Bible!
Sounds hokey, but whatever.
I'm 15 btw I know I sound like an old woman, but work with me here.
Go outside, climb a tree, sing, write a song, go punch things, scream in a pillow, call a friend and talk about sad things, then talk about HAPPY things, plan your wedding (if you're a guy, design.....a car, or whatever guys do when they're bored.)
Get involved in something.
I was going thru a horrid time in my life, and I got involved in this website where you trade old designer clothes for new ones free. (I'm a girl tho, if you wanna do it too and you're a guy...go ahead its called swapstyle.com =D)
That helped incredibly because I looked forward to things, and it made me feel better.
Do something to get your mind off of things, and remember there IS a plan for you.
You might not ever know what it is, but I think you should think positively about it, and go and be happy. =D
Also, the hard times you experience now, could be something you could use to help other people.
When my friend misscarried twins, (she was a pastors wife) some people came to them asking for emotional help because they had lost their baby.
And since she and her husband could relate, they were able ot help them.
Think of every trial as a future blessing.
It'll get better, I promise :)
2007-07-27 14:17:32 · answer #8 · answered by kelso mcfly 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
God would be disapointed that you did not complete your time here and learn from the experiences that he layed out for you... but I don't think he would be mad. You see, God is everything and in order to be truly close to God we have to experience anger and pain and work through it. I believe that when we deliberately end one life, we will be forced to work through our pain in another life anyway. I personally would rather get through things in this life and move on to new experiences in the next.
2007-07-27 14:15:05 · answer #9 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get and be in control of your anger
that is something you have to do with Gods help
God loves you and wants you to control all aspects of your life and let him be Lord over it
There is a scripture that says a man that has no rule over his own spirit is like a wall broken down, and anything can go in and come out then
So if you have a wall up over your own spirit you have control
If not it breaks and spirits can come in a control you
God is the final authority over life and death it is his power you would be taking control over if you killed yourself
2007-07-27 14:21:59 · answer #10 · answered by Gifted 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋