I have been in a long ditance relationship for almost two years now...he lives in columbus and I live in dayton its a good hour and a half to two hours from each other but he still works in a city not too far from me...we are moving in next summer together...I will be moving in with him up to columbus... my question is will things get better has far as the fighting and arguements...i tend to argue with him a lot on stupid things and I think its cause of the distance and that i miss him so much..just thought i'd ask your opinion!!!!
2007-07-27 13:33:01 · 6 answers · asked by boricuamami_85 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most of the times, we argue because of different opinions. In a relationship, i believe it is healtier to hv arguements than not. We argue cos we want to voice a point knowing that it differs from our partner. We are an individual, and to agree with our partners all the time, is impossible. It is better to be honest and frank than be a hypocrite.
After a few years in a relationship, the arguements would reduce for we could understand each other better. If instead of reducing, it increases, then that relationship is not healthy.
Does it make sense?
2007-07-30 04:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by Sal SR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things are more than likely to change. Considering, you two are going to move in together. Things will different, you can see him everyday and observe his likes and dislikes and naturally you will pick that up and know what will tick him off or not and vise versa. I think its' a healthy step into a relationship.
As far as the arguing, like i said, you'll know what makes him mad and he'll know what makes you mad. Thus, the arguments should occasionally occur. Its healthy to argue, not fight. I hope that helps [: and congrats on moving in with your significant other (;
2007-07-27 13:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by hreye005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, now that is a shame you and him don't even live 2 hours from each other and you are auguring. What for it isn't as though he lives in the same town. You need a reality check on this relationship.
2007-07-27 13:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry if anything the arguements and fighting may increase --- you need to ask yourself why you are doing that --- and im sorry an hour and half to two hours is NOT long distance --- i know i would travel that every weekend to be with my lady --- she is currently about 17,000 km away --- now that is long distance --- best wishes
2007-07-27 13:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, my bf and i argue over the stupid things also (he's stationed over sea's). when we are together..all of that foolishness goes out of the window. it's mostly stress related. hang in there. you two will be ok. just keep communicating with each other. best wishes to you both.
2007-07-27 13:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in a long distance relationship rite now. he live in west virginia and i live in tennessee. we c each quite often considering we live like 5 or 6 hours away from each other.
2007-07-27 13:38:12 · answer #6 · answered by Emily R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋