I like this girl I used to work with. We're really good friends and stuff, but the thing we worked in ended today, and we probably won't see each other for another year. We can communicate through emails and AIM, but that won't change the fact that I won't see her for another year. I want to tell her "You are so perfect and I love you!" but if I get rejected... I don't even know what I'd do. The problem is, she might be "taken" by the next time we see each other. If I so something about it now, she might break up with me and we'd be really awkward around each other during the next time we work together during the summer.
By the way, she lives in Richmond, and I live like 30 minutes away, so I can't just walk next door and say "I love you!"
HELP!
2007-07-27 13:24:18 · 16 answers · asked by Llama Face Donkey Pie Cookie Jar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 13 years old, people.
2007-07-27 13:37:19 · update #1
Well, you can't walk, but you can drive. I would go for it, but don't come off too strong, or you may scare her. Just tell her that she made a strong impression on you and that you really like her and hope that you two can take the relationship a step further. Keep in touch throughout the year, long distance relationships are hard, but doable. If you really do care about this girl, tell her. She'll be flattered and will hopefully have liked you back! Good luck! I hope it all works out!
2007-07-27 13:30:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. But i definetly would leave out the part about"loving her," it's a bit too early in the game to be professing your love. (just being truthful) if you just have to use the word Love say something like " I love being around you and I feel as though you are perfect for me." Love is not easy. Take a chance. Sure you may be hurt if she says no but you will never know what could've happened if you don't ask. I'm Rootin For ya!!!
2007-07-27 20:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by flordasian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never know what her answer will be unless you express to her how you truley feel. Since you 2 have been working together you both already have developed a friendship whitch is good,friends before lovers. Let her know,this way you will not be kicking yourself in the but, because you never tried.Damn if you do and Damn if you don't. You only get one life,Go for it!!!!!
Can't say you didn't try. If she is not available or would perfer to remain friends that's good to it least she knows How you feel.
2007-07-27 20:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps this is too obvious, but you might want to just plainly tell her you find her attractive and want to see her outside of work.
revision 1.1 - You're 13!?! By all means shout your undying love from the highest rooftops! Do it right now! Get your first painful and embarrassing quest for a "woman's" affection out of the way early and all your future misadventures will seem so much easier by comparison.
2007-07-27 20:28:16 · answer #4 · answered by gunplumber_462 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think there is a chance she might be taken by next year, then maybe you should speak up. If she doesn't feel the same way im sure she will be mature enough to still want to be your friend and you wont have to wonder what if.
2007-07-27 20:28:34 · answer #5 · answered by California Kush 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if you can meet her (in her town) at a restaurant and tell her over a nice dinner. If you get rejected then your just going to have to move on. Sorry im not much help. But good luck in the process
2007-07-27 20:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say just tell her or tell her how you feel about her before she goes because believe me she will be with someone else and you will be regreting all those times you had the chance to tell her your feelings. if you are too scared of being rejected, how do you know and you will always be trying to guess whether she would of answered yes. so go for it because it could change your life.
hope this helps and good luck getting her. :)
2007-07-27 20:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off you sound pretty young, so I would just keep in touch with her, spend some time with her when you can and just wait and see when you get a little older and can drive to see her if it works out, if it was meant to be it will!!!!
I knew it, just keep in contact. You are so young that she might be just a blip on your radar and be gone tomorrow, just look forward to seeing her next year it will be a great reunion!!!
2007-07-27 20:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by yabba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's easy... just use your balls and say it. Dont be afraid of rejection because if she dont want you, then you dont wanna be with her... trust me on that one. I just went up to my g/f and kissed her without asking when I met her. She wasn't taken at the time... but I didn't even ask. ;)
2007-07-27 20:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by J T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP sitting around doing nothing and GO GET THE GIRL!! Ive made that mistake to many times. Ge off your rump and tel her....NOW
2007-07-27 20:26:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋