i dont know wats wrong with people these days but i was at my job, n they were talkin about fat people, and that thats their biggest fear.to be fat.n im the biggest person there..im chubby..5'5 155lbs. i think its very rude so talk about things like that in front of a person that has that problem u know? like..i dont understand wats the purpose n why do they keep talking about it...when am right there with them...i just stay quiet bcuz idk wat to say..help me
2007-07-27 13:19:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
That's because they have nothing better to talk about, they dont want to talk about their own problems so they talk bad about others to make themselves feel better.
Actually people point out their own issues in other people (e.g. woman who is slim and but has bad self esteem and thinks she is fat but hopes nobody else will notice/think that way about her so talking about somebody else's fat will shift the attention away from her)
2007-07-27 13:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by Natalie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you about them being rude for talking like that in front of you.
I too have a weight problem with about 250 plus weight on me.
The best thing is just to ignore them. If they become rude or invasive, and they're a customer, just on a false smile and wait until they leave. They are definitely not worth losing a job over.
"What goes around comes around" will one day happen to these people.
Just my honest opinion.
2007-07-27 20:23:58 · answer #2 · answered by DeafLegacy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just rude hun. Maybe they didnt realize they were upsetting you (i'd like to think that) or maybe they did it deliberately, just to be cruel. There are a lot of people out there who are insecure within themselves and they make themselves feel better by putting others down. Either way, dont worry about them, they arent worth it. It's whats inside that counts, your 10 X better than they are..so forget them.
2007-07-27 20:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by jane d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They wouldn't make fun of fat people right in front of you if they actually thought you were fat. You don't sound fat to me, you just sound curvy. That's a GOOD THING!!! I'd rather be curvy than bony any day.
2007-07-31 20:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by pseudonym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could lose weight, or stop being bothered by it.
It's happened to me, but I'm not fat anymore.
If it bothers you, the best thing to do is let them know it makes you uncomfortable, and ask they not make comments like that around you.
2007-07-27 20:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by quayman0001 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah ppl like that are douche's, i cant stand ppl now. i hate like all ppl lol, but just lose weight and then like get thin and start being like yeah well i was too fat and you guys made me realize just how fat i was and how horrible it is to be a lttle bit overweight! it is disgusting! and then they will feel stupid! lol i done it to my sister and now she is like 30lbs overweight and im only 110lb's
2007-07-27 20:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be like its not the end of the world if your fat. i mean tell them that it shouldnt matter what you look like on the outside because you'll still be you at the end.
2007-07-27 20:23:33 · answer #7 · answered by Seema D 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its wrong and sometimes i have trubble i think im fat . i hate skinny ppl who are mean
2007-07-27 20:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. free country?
2007-07-27 20:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by Seandude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋