Well, everyone convinced me she isnt good for me. She wont chage. How do i grow balls and kick her *** to the curb? Its hard because i left my friends in nj to ny to a town over from her. When i go out with my friends in nj when she pisses me off, i keep telling myself i am the man, i get a real cocky attitude and meet cute sweet girls, but i can never act on it cause then i think how sometimes she is sweet. Plus living here and not knowing anyone makes it harder. What do i do? I am a little pussy when she plays her mind games and always give in. How do i grow balls, and move on? Its not a "i cant do better situation" like i said cute sweet girls talk to me all the time. But not having the history with them i have with her, makes me think it might be a mistake leaving. And lord knows what i will be getting myself into with the next girl. Help.
2007-07-27 10:39:09 · 3 answers · asked by philanselmodown 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont mean i get a cocky attitude with her. It's after i leave. I've told her so many times how her behavior hurts me, and she keeps it up. So the talking to her doesnt work. I'm convinced i need to leave her. But i dont know how since i live in ny now, and don't have friends here to keep me up. Thats why i end up sometimes going back to nj to see my good friends.
2007-07-27 10:47:23 · update #1
And lets say i cant break up with her. How do i get respect back which i've lost from her? When i threaten to leave her, she tells me she'll go "hook up with some hot guy." Would she? I dunno, i doubt it, but she likes to drink, so im sure on the wrong night out with her friends she would cheat on me. I want to flip the situation, but not for the worst. I want to take control back, but not like it sounds. I just want the respect back. That or dump her. Both is whats right but seems impossible.
2007-07-27 10:50:30 · update #2
You have to sit down with this young lady and have a heart to heart talk. If you know you are being cocky then of course, you are going to get attitude from her too. Sounds like both of you are playing games. That's not necessary - just be honest with her. You don't have to grow any **** you just have to use what you have. If you want to move on - then just break up with her. Period. You can't have your cake and eat it too.
2007-07-27 10:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell he to shut up, then tell her that things are nt working out. it' creual, but you need to get her attention, take charge of the situation, she might be a sweet girl, but i bet she won't like it when she catches u makin out with another one, if she dosen't understand it its her problem. go with your gut, and don't let her get to you or you'll be hers forever.
2007-07-27 17:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by jt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't that you haven't grown a set of balls.....
It's that the ones you've got are IN her purse and she's in control of 'em.
2007-07-27 19:26:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋