i broke up with my ex and its almost been 2months now...for some reason we still hang out once in a blue moon..but wat is confusing is ..he calls my brother and my cousins and friends up besides me to hang out and everything...why would he do this even after we have broken up ? im thinking he might be trying to get to me through my family and friends but im confused...why would he do this guys ?
2007-07-27 10:25:20 · 10 answers · asked by gina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about it. If he is trying to get you back, be sure to make it clear that you don't want him back. Otherwise, just don't read to deeply into it. If he was close to these people while you were dating, there is nothing wrong with him being close to them now that you are not dating.
2007-07-27 10:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your brother and cousins have no respect for your feelings. They have to know you broke up and what an awkward situation it is for the ex to call up and hang out with them. The same goes for your friends.
Even if the aforementioned cousins and friends are all male they can't be that stupid but just in case they are tell them how this makes you feel, if you've already done so well refer to the first sentence
Yes he wants you back but going around you and not to you is not the way to do it.
2007-07-27 17:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I am going through a similiar situation right now..me and my boyfriend of a yr. and a half broke up about a month ago, and I still talk to his mom. I got really close to his family and was over there like everyday. He hurt me, but his family didn't...I am not going to stop talking to his mom and stuff cuz he's being a jerk. So its nothing to worry about...maybe he really is just their friend. And its not fair that he looses you and everyone else....So I know how he feels.
2007-07-27 17:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by Shae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he's trying to get to you. But if you guys went out for a long time then he may still consider your family friends and just want to hang out. and the reason he leaves you out is because you broke up.
2007-07-27 17:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by jcsgrlone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys cant get over the girls and act like pig and will anything to get back at you. Hanging up Compleatly normal. If he was acting like that just give him an ICE COLD SHOULDER and that should cool him down enough to gethim to a right thinking stage.
2007-07-27 17:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happened in our family, too..maybe he just likes your family members as friends, so he calls them up (or maybe, once in awhile, they'll call him up) to hang out together. He *might* be trying to get back to you, but, then again, he might not be.
2007-07-27 17:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by bitadkins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. He wants you to worry about it. Do your thing. If he is around and sees you going on, hey, it's his own head that he is bumping. Don't get caught up in his brain game. If you are really through, be through!!!
2007-07-27 17:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he feels comfortable with your family. If he is trying to get you back then so be it...... do you want him back???? if you don't then tell him .... but let him remain friends with your family....... it can't hurt anyone....... right?
2007-07-27 17:32:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on how long you guys dated. same thing happened with me and my ex. but it was because while dating me he created a bond with my family as well.
2007-07-27 17:29:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants you back or he probably really likes your family.
2007-07-27 17:28:04 · answer #10 · answered by lissette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋