how do women like to be approached when first meeting someone?

Question

How do you start off a conversation and should I ask alot of questions if so what do i ask women please serious answers only

Answer 1

approach a woman with respect and friendliness. Say hello and introduce yourself. Ask her her name. Compliment how she looks. Do not ask too many personal question, that's just rude and will freak any woman out.

Answer 2

I think many of the posters hit it right on the head. Don't get too personal too quickly.

Although I'm a married guy, I did pretty well in the singles scene. One rule that I swore by and served me well was to never be the first person to mention anything sexual. Keep it light. No matter how good looking you are, women need to feel that the guy who just started talking to them isn't going to become a threat. It's a filter that us straight guys just down seem to have so we often forget it when we chat a girl up.

Keep it light, keep the focus on them, or better yet, something of mutual interest. Don't get too invested. If it seems like the girl is looking around for her friends or a way to make a quick exit, let her go. Better yet, wrap up the conversation smoothly and with a smile, give her one last compliment, and then you be the one to exit gracefully.

It's tricky thing to master but you have to come across as a study in contrasts: safe, but edgy; attentive, but self-confident; interested, but not desperate.

Any female posters want to back me up on this?

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Think of yourself at the poker table...You do not want to come on to strong at first. Look for clues that she is interested in you before you get there...Eye contact. Flirtatiousness. gestures. mood (especially important). Get a read on how she is feeling before you walk up to her. Try to notice something that sets her apart from all the rest of the people around her. When the time is right, casually, ask some generic questions as if testing the waters. Then see where it goes....Good luck

Answer 5

If it were me i would like to be approached in a kind way. Just say hi my name is ... what's yours? and go from there. Take it from a girl who knows don't just go up and say something like Hey sweet thang... That is so lame. And annoying. Girls like it when you are yourself, when you don't talk about yourself too much, and they like good listeners, not some one who just talks incessantly (constantly) thats how i would like to be approached anyway. Hope this helps.

Answer 6

treat her like a lady ..dont ask questions that are too personal but go ahead and ask questions as this will show that your interested in her .the conversation should flow naturally if there is chemistry between you guys.dont talk too much about yourself and listen to what she has to say

Answer 7

Just some casual questions like What's your name, what's your career, or what are your hobbies? Don't bombard them with questions. If the person's right, you'll just go with the flow.

Answer 8

Go outside of your room and talk to a woman.

Answer 9

Lol, the first one is good. I imagine him saying it with an English accent.

Answer 10

Just say hi and take it from there. Be bold.