I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. I love him more than anything, and I've always been faithful. But lately I've been emailing one of my old friends from middle school, who I had a crush on back then...and now I can't stop thinking about him! We were really good friends back in the day, and then all of a sudden we're talking again. Neither me or my boyfriend are the types to cheat, because we've both been cheated on. But for some reason..this old crush...I can't stop thinking about just hanging out with him like we used to, and I've always wanted to know what it's like to kiss him. My friends say it's normal for girls in long-term relationships to fantasize about being single again, and I've been doing that A LOT. I just don't know if I should keep talking to him to see if that connection is still there, or just give in to temptation and risk losing everything with the man I love. I feel so guilty just even thinking about being with this other guy. What should I do?
2007-07-27 10:13:04 · 3 answers · asked by Niki C 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel this strongly about the situation then you need to re-think your relationship. If your boyfriend was thinking this way would it be fair to you? It's not fair to him and therefore you should break up before you cheat. Close one door before you open the other and before you do that be sure that the door you close is the right one.
2007-07-27 10:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by been there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just experiencing normal youthful yearnings. That does not make you bad. What you do about it is what shows your character.
2007-07-27 10:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your heart....go with your gut!!!!!
2007-07-27 10:17:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋