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i guess you could say im just waiting for this guy to ask me out..
how do i say yes without seeming totally easy to him?

2007-07-27 06:58:07 · 25 answers · asked by dgirl92 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

25 answers

he asks you ate.

wait a moment.

"hmmm" bite your lip decisively

than say

"um okay"..."yeah, sure".

That way its like you haven't thought about it and you hesitant but then say yes sort of unsure and then say yeah again more positive. Its what i do :)

2007-07-27 07:08:07 · answer #1 · answered by Kemps K 2 · 0 0

I believe there will be no right answer at all here. It's just a question of personality. How he thinks, how he is. But also how you are most of the time, your reputation, ....

The best way would be to make everything step by step, so in the first time, just accepting one date, in a public place. After it, also in public place. As long as you don't kiss him in the beginning, he will already believe that you're not easy.
But here it's a game: you don't have to be too offensive, or he'll think you're easy... and not too defensive, or he might find another. And that only depends on his way of thinking.

2007-07-27 07:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by Damokles 2 · 0 0

A woman doesn't seem easy just because she agrees to go out with a guy. If you like him just say yes and forget that other junk.

2007-07-27 07:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Depends on what you're saying yes to. If it's something casual, you can be like,"okay, I got other plans for later but I can count you in" or make him come with you and a friend. Easy women usually flaunt their sexuality and try to seduce their date as soon as possible, then they move on. I think if you make him take his time, you'll be alright as long as you don't make it too cool so that he looks for someone warmer. Balance is good. Oh yeah, I think it's alright to invite him to something if it's supercasual and involves a public place.

2007-07-27 07:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0 0

Well do it by agreeing to go out with him, but agree to meet him somewheree for the first time. This way he sees you are willing to go out but at the same time you still have a guard up while you get to know him. He will respect this and not think you are easy at all. For the next date you can let him drive if you like.

2007-07-27 07:02:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Saying 'yes' doesn't make you easy dear...it means you're interested in him (and that should be a good thing).

If he asks you out say "sure, that sounds great" or something along those lines...what about accepting an invitation makes one appear "easy"?

2007-07-27 07:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1 0

You don't seem easy if you simply say yes to a mere date. It is when you say yes to sex. Then you will seem easy. So accept his invitation politely if you like him & just don't become very dependant or clingy & you'll be just fine.

2007-07-27 07:02:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Hi',` Well uh'mm I'm a GUY !!! Hey.' ;-D ((Ladies))~,~`~.~'-{-,-@ How about if you try among other things!?! by saying something to the effect of: for instance: " OK we can go out or whatever the case may be !?! But either I have to be in bed by a certain time !?! & or "YOU THINK YOU"D BETTER TURN IN EARLY SO YOU CAN GET REST YOU HAD BEEN NEGLECTING TO GET !?!.. that way they guy should respect your time/schedule !?! Or skip it !! or just say you wo'nt be doing whatever.,. many other times because he wo'nt respect what you may need to do or take care of !?!...see I too have a mom,aunts,& younger female cousins I try not to worry about when they may be away or out late !![7/27/07] "R"r`r.r'r,r`,'-

2007-07-27 07:16:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0 1

If it is yes to sex before marriage, you are being easy. If it is yes to going on a date and that's what you want to do than go for it.

2007-07-27 07:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0 0

Just because he asks you out and you say yes to him doesn't mean that you're easy, it just means that you're interested in seeing him.

If he says he wants to sleep with you within minutes/days/hours of meeting you and you say "Yeah, sure...okay lets do that." THEN you're easy.

2007-07-27 07:02:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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