How do you show your husband you are sorry for a really big fight?
he walked out after this fight and im trying to fight for him to come home. i am willing to do whatever it takes. i am working on getting a job, i take care of the kids and the house chores
he wont talk to me but i know he is reading my blogs. so im trying to tell him in my own way that im sorry and that i am willing to do whatever it takes to get him back. i love him dearly. i know im a b i t c h but im in counceling for that
2007-07-27 06:51:06 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If he is not talking to you but reading your blogs this guy sounds immature. Every couple fights. No marriage is problem free. Communication is the key to a great relationship.
Rather then beg this guy to come home I would be focusing on myself and my kids. Being married and being treated like a door mat is not the way to live. If you want or need to get a job then fine but you need to find out life goes on with or without him. I am not saying get a divorce but what kind of man leaves his wife and children to get his way.
2007-07-27 07:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be a good idea to get advice from your counselor, you have to communicate and tell him just like you are telling a bunch of strangers , you love and are willing to do whatever it takes to get back together , the bigest problem we have in a relationship is communication
2007-07-27 07:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. This may take time because you will have to prove you've changed instead of just saying you've changed. A good rule of thumb for the future is to treat him as you would want him to treat you. If you do that you both should be happy.
2007-07-27 07:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by Pamela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say 2 short phrases: "I apologize" and "I love you" (in a sincere voice, of course)
That gets my husband every time! Nothing more is needed to be said. Good luck!
2007-07-27 07:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by Chuki04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
My answer is that you had better read Save My Marriage Today( http://save-the-marriage.info ) written by Amy Waterman first.I believe that you can solve your problems after reading that book.
Good luck!
2007-07-30 23:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't use blogs, call him, write him a letter and just tell him, and give him specific changes you're going to make.
2007-07-27 07:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him!!!!
2007-07-27 06:57:05 · answer #7 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋